Testing on the 19thI am not charting this month - just seeing how things work out. I figure I o'ed on the 4th or 5th, which would put me at 10dpo right now. Of course, I was out of town (without DH) until the evening of the 4th, but we bd'ed on the 4th, 5th and 6th before running out of steam and letting life get in the way.
DH works second shift and it's really amazing how TIRING trying to fit sex into our lives has been lately. For the past few cycles, we have been bd'ing in the mornings, with me waking him up when I get up for work. This month, I had him wake me up at night when he gets home. I think it worked a little better except that after 3 nights, he said he was too tired of waking me up (which is not always an easy feat). So, hopefully 3 times was enough.