My 6 month old still nurses as frequently as she did when she was 3 months old. She eats little but often. I'm a grazer too so I can't blame her. Even her night feeds haven't changed - a feed about 10.30pm, 3am, 6am. After reading the books, I expected her to space her feedings out more but she hasn't. She's always been a little eater. So the books and other people's experience isn't always helpful when you wanna know the answer to these questions. Does she give you clear signals when she's hungry? That's another issue we had, my dd is so laidback, she doesn't signal very strongly when she's hungry.