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My due date came and went yesterday without anything, so now the waiting begins. The anticipation is blowing my mind. I can't wait to see this little one and hold s/he in my arms.

I don't really think I am seeing any signs that labor may be soon. I seem to have been losing what I think may be small bits of my mucous plug since last Monday, but no pink tinge or blood to it at all. I haven't had any intense contractions, just a few mild braxton hicks here and there. My bathroom visits have increased in the last two days. I wish that I would at least get a more concrete sign that , yes, labor will begin sometime soon or at least that my body is gearing up for it a bit more. This baby has to make an appearance eventually, right?

On Friday night the baby was moving like crazy. DH couldn't believe how active the baby was. I thought babies were supposed to slow down at the end of pregnancy, not go breakdancing in the womb! Last night the same thing happened.
post #2 of 13
, Heather. ESPECIALLY with your first, you are not "officially overdue" until 42 weeks+. Right now, you and your sweet baby are doing exactly what you're supposed to be doing. Try to enjoy these last quiet days with your partner...
post #3 of 13
I'll be there in 3 days although to be honest I've felt overdue for a few now LOL.. my girls were both 10 days early and this waiting is just driving me crazy!
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Originally Posted by wwisdomskr View Post
, Heather. ESPECIALLY with your first, you are not "officially overdue" until 42 weeks+. Right now, you and your sweet baby are doing exactly what you're supposed to be doing. Try to enjoy these last quiet days with your partner...
ditto that. and remember you are not some piece of meat that is overdone if you bake it to 42 wx. my megh was born at 41 wx...she is my first. a lot of mamas go to 42 wx...it just is the way their bodies work w/ their babes... hang in there and as wwidomskr said, enjoy those last days of just the 2 of you and bein' pg...
post #5 of 13
I'm right there with you. Yesterday was my EDD too. And I know it's only an estimate but I was still kinda sad to not be holding my baby yet.
post #6 of 13
I remember feeling such mixed emotions going to 42 + wks with my 1st. Hang in there! There's still lots of mamas waiting for babies. Just keep yourself occupied.
post #7 of 13
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Thanks girls. I know the EDD doesn't really mean anything. I have really been patient and not stressed about any of it, but like Cathy said I was just a little sad yesterday not to have baby in my arms. I am mentally prepared to go another two + weeks though. Just needed that little push I knew I would get from all of you.
post #8 of 13
I feel for ya. Today was my third due date the doctors' gave me and nada. Of course, with my mother here for another week...this kid ain't coming out until she's GONE!!! So I'm prepapred to go as long as it takes
post #9 of 13
I'm totally feeling your pain. My EDD is this thursday and I've got no real labor signs.. not even any contractions aside from BH. I felt this whole time that I would surely go early ( was 2 weeks early with DS), but as each day passes with no baby I'm feeling more and more like she's going to be a LATElate baby. Just praying for labor to start on its own so we can still have our homebirth...

You're in good company. We'll all be late together
post #10 of 13
I feel for you! I'm due on Wednesday and have had NO signs of labor--no mucus plug, bleeding, etc. I was having tons of cramping and major ctx and nausea last week, but it all went away and now I'm not getting anything.

I'm trying to stay positive, so I'm choosing to interpret this as I have created such a wonderful environment for this little one that she just doesn't want to leave!
post #11 of 13
I came by to check on you because I knew you were due around this time. I'm sorry the anticipation is getting to you, but hang in there because your sweet babe is going to be here soon enough! I can't wait to hear all about it, you're the last of our centering group to go but much anticipated. Lots of blessings and labor vibes for you.
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I'm trying to stay positive, so I'm choosing to interpret this as I have created such a wonderful environment for this little one that she just doesn't want to leave!
I like this. That sounds very helpful!

Katie - Thanks so much for thinking of me. I am just so excited to finally see this little one. It's that giddy feeling in the pit of my stomach. This evening I doubled checked to make sure we had everything ready and then just sat in the baby's room quietly for awhile. The quiet seemed to calm me and I am feeling a little more centered tonight. I can't believe Liam is two months old!!! Hope all is well for your family.
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I used to go in Liam's room before he was born and do the same thing I remember that in the days before he was born, I reached this state of calm where everything was alright with the world, meditating definitely helped. I was really worried about a lot of things and letting go did it for me. Take this time to relax mentally and physically and let go of anything that might be holding you up.

I can't believe he is either, Andrew isn't allowed to watch movies where women have babies because he already says he wants another one
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