Sister/doctor dilemma - Page 2

[tammyswanson]

Seems like your sister keeps changing things. First she says x, but then does y, then she tries to push for q and r and z. Seems like she is trying to lure you into a hospital birth (obviously). Like you said, you need to trust your instincts on this. She is letting her feelings for you get in the way, so she wants to try to get you to where she *thinks* it's safe. Trust your gut instinct on this, you know deep down what you need to do. Your instinct won't mislead you.

BTW, if you are worried about CPS being called, this is a good website to peruse, just in case you need to be prepared. It's a shame how they act, guilty until proved innocent in many cases.
http://www.fightcps.com/articles/callforchange.html

[Kidzaplenty]

Your entire story strikes me as one of those stories where the doctors "trick" the patient into compliance by subtly increasing their demands. You know the whole, "let's just do this because of xyz but don't worry about anything else", and then "Oh, well, why don't we just do this because it is so easy and could be of help later," and so on, until before you know it, you have been subtly coerced into something totally opposite of what you had wanted in the first place, because of course, the doctor knew what you needed in the first place and was just stringing you along to get you to comply.

Anyways, many of the doctors that I have worked with have been like this.

Oh, but congratulations on standing up to your sister!