Hello!
My former NICU RN, current neonatal RN mother has been asking me a lot of questions about homebirth lately. She understands why people do it (she has many horror stories about OBs - she works in a very old fashioned hospital), but her main problem with it is the 'what if' situations in which fatalities can occur. This is what she just said to me:
"Maybe there are just a handful of bad outcomes in the big picture but you have to ask yourself if you want to take that chance. If something happened - even if it wasn't necessarily a result of your decision - you could never know for sure - and you would have to live with that. I know you - you're a lot like me and you would never forgive yourself. there are a lot of things that can go wrong at the last minute which could mean the difference between life and death (literally) for both you and your baby. Even a few minutes delay could make a huge difference in the outcome. Things like prolapsed cord, meconium aspiration, shoulder dystocia, tight nuchal cord, abruption, uncontrolled bleeding, etc - the list goes on and on. Again - things like this don't happen very frequently but they do happen - and they CAN happen to you."
My question to you guys is - what DO midwives do in these situations? Is there a source of info on the web somewhere that I can find this? She is just convinced that midwives can't handle emergencies and I'd like to give her some info. Since she is a medical professional, vague answers don't really do it for her, she wants specifics. So far she has been open to any info I can give her about natural childbirth, why women wouldn't want to give birth in the hospital, etc. so I'm hoping that she might be more open to homebirth if I can provide her with responses to her questions. She is midwife friendly - she has worked with many in her 20+ years at the hospital and has positive views of them - so that helps.
I know about the Gaskin maneuver for SD and the somersault maneuver for tight nuchal cord (though I'm aware that this often resolves itself as the baby is born), and the all-fours, butt-in-the-air, midwife sometimes holding the baby up off the cord until arrival at a hospital for prolapse. I know that midwives carry something they inject into women who hemorrhage (can't remember the name), and some midwives use Shepherd's Purse.
I haven't told her any of these things yet, just making a list. Do you guys have any more specifics, or can you point me to a website? I've done research online but haven't found much.
Thanks!
My former NICU RN, current neonatal RN mother has been asking me a lot of questions about homebirth lately. She understands why people do it (she has many horror stories about OBs - she works in a very old fashioned hospital), but her main problem with it is the 'what if' situations in which fatalities can occur. This is what she just said to me:
"Maybe there are just a handful of bad outcomes in the big picture but you have to ask yourself if you want to take that chance. If something happened - even if it wasn't necessarily a result of your decision - you could never know for sure - and you would have to live with that. I know you - you're a lot like me and you would never forgive yourself. there are a lot of things that can go wrong at the last minute which could mean the difference between life and death (literally) for both you and your baby. Even a few minutes delay could make a huge difference in the outcome. Things like prolapsed cord, meconium aspiration, shoulder dystocia, tight nuchal cord, abruption, uncontrolled bleeding, etc - the list goes on and on. Again - things like this don't happen very frequently but they do happen - and they CAN happen to you."
My question to you guys is - what DO midwives do in these situations? Is there a source of info on the web somewhere that I can find this? She is just convinced that midwives can't handle emergencies and I'd like to give her some info. Since she is a medical professional, vague answers don't really do it for her, she wants specifics. So far she has been open to any info I can give her about natural childbirth, why women wouldn't want to give birth in the hospital, etc. so I'm hoping that she might be more open to homebirth if I can provide her with responses to her questions. She is midwife friendly - she has worked with many in her 20+ years at the hospital and has positive views of them - so that helps.
I know about the Gaskin maneuver for SD and the somersault maneuver for tight nuchal cord (though I'm aware that this often resolves itself as the baby is born), and the all-fours, butt-in-the-air, midwife sometimes holding the baby up off the cord until arrival at a hospital for prolapse. I know that midwives carry something they inject into women who hemorrhage (can't remember the name), and some midwives use Shepherd's Purse.
I haven't told her any of these things yet, just making a list. Do you guys have any more specifics, or can you point me to a website? I've done research online but haven't found much.
Thanks!











and according to the citation below, hospitals allowing moms to labor and birth in the same room has not resulted in more deaths form prolapsed cords.)

