I had a pretty good home birth experience when my DD was born 17 months ago, and I'm now pregnant with #2. I only have one major issue with the experience, and that is the "placenta emergency" that my midwives FREAKED out over.
So DD was born in the bathroom and shortly after we moved to the bed. Then I was informed that we needed to start working on getting the placenta out, as an hour had gone by already with no contractions (this shocked me as I thought only 10 min had passed
. At first I ignored them and continued snuggling and nursing my baby... but then they started in with "we need to be proactive about this" and told me that if the placenta doesn't come out very soon after birth the cervix will close up and I would have to go to the hospital. I had my doubts about this but I was not well informed and I think any home birther knows the kind of fear that comes with hospital threats. They wanted me to take something they had (I have no idea what it was as I don't know much about natural medicines/herbs) that was suppose to make me have contractions but I really didn't want to do that, so I agreed to move back to the bathroom and try to push out the placenta on the toilet. To do this the umbilical cord had to be cut, and the baby wrapped up and given to my mother to hold (she promptly took her in the other room, to this day I'm still upset about that 
The bathroom pushing was unsuccessful and I was getting really really cranky having been awake for 3 days straight and just given birth and all. I was exhausted and decided to lay back down with my baby. She started nursing and the placenta promptly came out within a few min.
Since the birth I haven't given much thought to that whole placenta situation, though I do keep meaning to look up more info about it, but now that I'm PG again I really need to talk about it and hear from others. I was just reading a beautiful UC story and read that it took this woman 3.5 hours to birth the placenta, and it kind of made me jealous and sad about what happened to me. Thinking back on it logically, my body was probably too exhausted for more contractions right away, and was giving me a little break.
If anyone has info or links that discuss this I would really appreciate it.
Also...at what point do you think getting the placenta out becomes urgent?
So DD was born in the bathroom and shortly after we moved to the bed. Then I was informed that we needed to start working on getting the placenta out, as an hour had gone by already with no contractions (this shocked me as I thought only 10 min had passed

. At first I ignored them and continued snuggling and nursing my baby... but then they started in with "we need to be proactive about this" and told me that if the placenta doesn't come out very soon after birth the cervix will close up and I would have to go to the hospital. I had my doubts about this but I was not well informed and I think any home birther knows the kind of fear that comes with hospital threats. They wanted me to take something they had (I have no idea what it was as I don't know much about natural medicines/herbs) that was suppose to make me have contractions but I really didn't want to do that, so I agreed to move back to the bathroom and try to push out the placenta on the toilet. To do this the umbilical cord had to be cut, and the baby wrapped up and given to my mother to hold (she promptly took her in the other room, to this day I'm still upset about that 
The bathroom pushing was unsuccessful and I was getting really really cranky having been awake for 3 days straight and just given birth and all. I was exhausted and decided to lay back down with my baby. She started nursing and the placenta promptly came out within a few min.Since the birth I haven't given much thought to that whole placenta situation, though I do keep meaning to look up more info about it, but now that I'm PG again I really need to talk about it and hear from others. I was just reading a beautiful UC story and read that it took this woman 3.5 hours to birth the placenta, and it kind of made me jealous and sad about what happened to me. Thinking back on it logically, my body was probably too exhausted for more contractions right away, and was giving me a little break.
If anyone has info or links that discuss this I would really appreciate it.
Also...at what point do you think getting the placenta out becomes urgent?











Turns out the darn thing was over 5 lbs and absolutely HUGE. Not horribly surprising, since my DS was over 10 lbs and needed a lot of support in there.


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