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post #21 of 28
Congradulations to Everyone who is making anykind of headway in eating and living organically.

For those less entlightened beings, like out bil, mil, and other (like my mom) we have to draw lines where our childern are concerned ang gently teach and share our knowledge of the goodness of organic. (and occasionally be rude, like if someone was smoking my family and I would have to quickly leave)

Today the checkout lady at the grocery store asked me if I noticed a difference in buying the organic products. I answered a resounding yes and explained how deeply what I allow my childern to eat impacts thier behavior.

I have found a real distane for red food dyes and hydrogenated oils in my childern's diets. The red dyes brings hyperactivity and the when combined with the hydrogenated oils brings adn instant rash to any part of thier skin that touches it. The unexplained rashes on my 6month old (4 years ago) was what brought us to natural foods to begain with. The rashes rarley show up in our everyday life today, but when they do we can useualy track them dirrectly to thier source.

A couple months ago a lady at church shared her child's friut loops with ours. And not even 5 minutes later we had to take our childern home and bath them because of thier rash.

anyways, my brain is wandering, so back on the subject. I had to teach my mother that she is not allowed to give pop or less than 100% juice to my childern. I also had to draw the line with margrine and processed cheezes. It took 3 years but she got the message and now stocks her house with fresh fruit and whole grain bread and natural peanute butter when we come. For a while we had to bring our own, adn I often offered to buy food for the gathering and plan menus/ do the cooking.

It takes commitment to the wellbeing of your children, but I know the rewards of healthier kids (and us) are worth it.

However, I have to admit that when my energy is low, or I am sick then convience food seems to make a full fledge comback for a week (even then we try to stick to bean based conveince foods like burritos, or organic burgers) until I am back on my feet.

But I really feel good when my kids have no clue that oreos are ment to be eaten or that white bread even exsists. (it's nice when you are thier primary influence in the world for the first few years)
post #22 of 28
i agree so much with whaSot you are saying roundbelly! I am a person who has gone alchohol free several years, complete sugar free 10 years, vegan 7 years, vegetarian 13 years and have been mostly organic for 12 years. I have also been chemical free as in nutrasweet, msg, dyes, perfumes, bleach etc...for most of these years.

But......about 13 years ago I heard this woman speak........and this when I was sugar free and basically she said if someone gives you something out of love that is you normally would not eat to bless it and eat it. So the message I got there is that sometimes it can be more toxic to our bodies and our spirits to always be so Pure and worried. So sometimes we need to lighten up and eat the MIL's lasagna with a smile and be happy. And the day I did not drink the nutra sweet v-8, I did not announce it, I slipped it to dh. Hope this makes sense.

By the way roundbelly, where in MN are you? We have a twin city preggie thread if you are interested. And I love love your signature. THE BEST!
post #23 of 28
I guess I could have just written that post!!!! That happens whenever we go to my mom's house for dinner and it makes me insane! I watch them use disposable napkins and plates and cups and have to bite my tongue. I just shake my head at it. I enjoy my family. I love them immensely but I cannot deal with their lack of attention to the environment. So I guess I am an eco-prude also. My mother freaked out when she noticed that we weren't gettign a tv for the apartment and when she saw all organic foods in my cupboards and fridge. I guess I"m the black sheep of the family. You should have seen her face when I told the family that we would prefer no plastic toys this year for christmas. That was a trip!!!!!!
Meg
post #24 of 28

thank you thank you thank you

i don't know how long i've waited to hear from crunchies like us who eat mainstream food sometimes. i am always feeling like i don't do enough, we eat so much good stuff at home and then i feel so bad if we go out to eat. i used to feel like "what's the point in buying organic this or that if we don't eat organic that or those" but then i realized it's all about moderation. yes we sometimes consume pure garbage, but that doesn't mean we have to throw in the towel and eat it all the time. i have to think that what we consume most of the time does make a difference after all right? i mean just imagine what we would feel/look like if we ate that crap ALL the time. i'm just feeling a sense of relief and now i'm letting out my breath from holding it for so long around people who do it "right" ALL THE TIME. i'm a vegetarian and so are my kids (my husband is a gourmet chef so he doesn't have that option yet while at work) and so i guess that is the only item we wouldn't bend on. we have been vegan on and off over the years and it was never something i felt just dead set against eating like i do with meat. we have to drive almost an hour to go to the food co op so i often wonder how great that is really. i mean driving so far to buy organic food that has been trucked in from some far off place. i'd much rather just buy locally (if it were an option for us) whether it was organic or not. we have to go to the same town to recycle as well so when we do make the trip we make sure we do both at the same time. it always seems crazy to drive so far to recycle but we do the best we can...and i just can't see throwing it away and thinking "well it's better than the un-earthfriendly drive" it's about weighing all your options and in the end doing the best you can in that moment. so it's that way with food too, you see? we just have to do what we can and i do agree that the worrying is much worse than any toxin if you let your worries get way out of control right?
we bought some silk milk recently in the new 2 pack and when i got home and realized that here i was with the same 2 cartons i usually get yet here's this extra thing this cardboard box that they came in, i saved 50 cents but now i have something to recycle or reuse. i try not to do stuff like that but i wasn't thinking at the time. i think it's best to buy stuff with less packaging but there i was holding this box with my saved change securely in the bank...ah well
post #25 of 28
:LOL I think PROUD maybe not the best word, but good enough for me....I've always been kinda on the "prudish" side moreso now than ever. I've even gotten dh so organic snobish he looses weight if he's not eating at home...ie gone for a week and has to eat non-home cooked foods. He had a breakfast in a cafeteria with his coworkers and he couldn't even eat the food. he tasted the eggs and he said he grimised and had to spit them out...when asked what was wrong, he said, "these are the most disgusting powderchemical eggs I've ever tasted", he didn't even bother with the sausage, just ate toast and coffee. He said he couldn't even bring himself to add hotsauce to those eggs. I've spoiled him for other things :LOL oh the power. As a once smoker for half my life I find the smell of smoke actually makes me gag now what was I thinking?!
When I think of the years I cheated on our foods and bought all those horrible chemical laden boxed prefab foods I just wanna retch. I also know I can't dwell on what has been done, learn from it and move on to healthier pastures.

oh we do eat out occasionally, not like we used to and we also tend to eat more "quality" meals out, rarely fast food. WE've found we've lost the 'desire' for it.
post #26 of 28
My name is Tiff and I'm an eco-prude. I can go to lots of people's house and enjoy myself, but we do pass on soda and ask for water instead. There are some things that will set me off though. Cigarette smoke is one of them. I've told people before that I cannot go to there house because of smoking. I'm very allergic to it, so at least I have a good excuse. I start coughing when I even get one whoof of smoke. This can happen at outdoors events even. We go far out of our way to not be around smoke. Which is pretty difficult in smoke-filled Europe.
post #27 of 28
I can't stand smoke either. I'll cross the street if I'm walking to go around someone with a cigarette. It makes me ill to breathe it.
post #28 of 28
I don't think your being a jerk, but to be honest, I am even worse than you!
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