Most frugal folks already do this, but increase the frequency of visting second hand stores...I know that's a pita..but all of my tableware is from Saver's. A number of years ago, I found a huge set of Wedgewood (England) dishware. Maybe start going to yard sales again. I stopped that for a bit, but this summer I found a tree house rope ladder that was made in Maine! I had been looking for one. It's about 20 yrs old, but it's great. I also frequently find stainless steel things in my searches. I have found lots of camping things as well. If you buy secondhand, you are not supporting the current issue w/MIC. And you save money.
As for toys, fewer things, but nicer things. Playmobil, Lego, Ravensburger etc. Nothing made in China and not hard to find.
This catlogue rocks:
www.novanatural.com It's a good one to send all the grandparents. My favortie not too $$ clothing source for littles:
www.basicbrilliance.com I have bought glasses from France from
www.williamssonoma.com SOme things are *mega* costly. but everyday juice glasses aren't too bad, and they last a long time. They are thick glass and hold up.
I know it's not easy...it's really hard...