I had no pit with my first and did have pit with this one. We consented to pit after my water broke and much time later, not so much as a contraction. My Dr knew that I wanted a birth free of pain meds and that I had done that with my first. I did sign for the epidural at that point, Just in case I decided I wanted it, having heard horror stories. They agreed to start at the lowest dose and very slowly increase in hopes that we could kick start my own body. They noted, and in my research this is true, that the two main reasons pit is so painful is that one, it kicks contractions off with much force and your body doesn't get that natural build-up of pain, natural release of endophins that help with that, etc...and two, that at some point your body kicks in and you suddenly have overdose of oxytocin/pitocin and they are way more painful.
So we started at 3:30pm with 2ml of pit, and after an hour, no contractions. They upped to 4ml, and I had one contraction with the next hour. They kept slowly increasing by 2ml's and they didn't get super painful till maybe 8-9pm. But they were tolerable with relaxation etc. At 8pm I was only 4cm, but at 10pm I think my body kicked in. Pit was at 20ml (most she could give without Dr sign-off) and I was suddenly things hurt bad. At 11:45pm I was 7cm, mid-transition, and all the joy that comes along with it (puking, shaking, etc). That last 45 minutes sucked bad but baby came without pain meds, at 12:47am.
That being said, my first drug free birth....I labored all day, was only 3cm at 5pm, then hit a horrid transition, puking, shaking, quick dialation, quick pushing.
So my final conclusion was that even with the pit, my labor were very similar in progression, and the pain level was slightly higher at the end with the pitocin.
I was not very pitocin saavy so keep in mind this is just my 2 cents here. My nurse was able to situation my IV and work with me on monitoring so I could be up and moving around in a set area at least, while on the IV with pit, which was great for pain control. By the time it got bad, I didn't want to move at all. I think that part of what made me get through that was that they did a very slow pit increase, so my body ramped up just like it did with my non-pit birth. I never got "slammed" with contractions like I hear a lot of the time, until transition, which is pretty normal for my body as my first was that way too.
They also watched things to see when my body kicked in so they could dial back the pit. Keep in mind I lucked out with an AWESOME nurse that was doing everything she could to help me get through with no pain meds, and told me later if she had a fourth baby she would do it at home in the water.

I was lucky in that case. All that being said, by 7cm I was beggin for an epidural.

I would have felt no shame, given the pit, in getting one. I know for many it is quite a bit more painful and not the same experience I had, and in that case I would probably opt for pain meds.
Just my experience....I hope it all goes well for you!! Much luck.
