Dean was born 11/06, I had an episiotomy and I tore on the other side sorta upwards inside (but not into bladder or rectum,, this time) the epi was 2nd degree the tear 3rd degree both stitched several layers... my point.. I am still pretty sore there...
my last two were BAD epis with bad lac a complete (DS1)and a big 3rd degree(DS2), this one is bad but not as bad.. 1st one I took a good 8 wks to heal and a full yr to not have pain and (honestly) it's never been the same.. the 2nd one tooka full six wks to heal and I still had lingering discomfort for another two weeks...
this time I am progressing faster but the fact that I tore upwards has been tough.. I guess my point is that it really does take a long time to heal and feel OK there.. have MW/doc take a look if you are worried you are not healing normally.. I'm sorry you are still so sore..