? for ones with an ex husband - Page 2

[BedHead]

I sometimes have sexual thoughts about my ex, but romantic? No way. I've dreamed about him and I being together, but it's not something that I want in any way. The dreams are a result I think of things being rocky in my current relationship. If given the chance to get back with him, even if I wasn't with my now-husband, no way would I.

[bigeyes]

Originally Posted by momsadvice

My best friend I think is sometimes still either in love or something else with her ex husband. I think she may fantasies about being back with him occasionally. She has another husband for several years now and has a family with him as well as her 1st husband. My question is do you as a remarried woman ever have this about your ex or any feelings at all? If you do not feel comfortable answering here you can pm me. Even a yes or no would be appreciated. Any details would be wonderful as well. Is this a normal thing? Would you be back with your ex if you could?

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Does that answer your question?

Now my ds's father is another story. I think he'll always have a special little place in my heart, though he doesn't deserve it. But I never married him, or even lived with him, so technically he isn't an ex. I don't think I'd be foolish enough to entertain the idea of a romance with him again, either, but he did help me create a very special person in my life, so he apparently gets some kind of slack that I have never given anyone else. Go figger.

[Storm Bride]

I have no feelings of any kind for my ex, except some distaste for the idea that I was ever physically intimate with him. Besides being ds1's dad, he's totally irrelevant to my life now. It was hard to break it off after being together for 15 years...but I basically had no feelings for him, aside from a sort of friendship and some mild affection, when we split up.

I have met some people who never seem to quite stop pining for their exes, though.

[Storm Bride]

Originally Posted by bigeyes

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