Originally Posted by expectantmami
You have to be picky! Using a KD can be complicated. If either one of you is even slightly uncomfortable with a donor-you have to nix it (IMHO). DP and I made a list of all of our male friends-and went through pros and cons. I think though because we just put our intention out there, we ended up finding our KD just by talking about our desire to have a child. We figured out that our friend wanted to be a donor-so it worked out. I say put your intention out there-get the word out-you might find someone faster than you think! But please BE PICKY!!
Thank you for saying that. I think I really needed to hear it. I couldn't explain in words why I didn't want the Canadian donor after we met. The only thing I could up with is that his breath smelled bad!
Match thought my ex looked funny (and he does... did then too, sweet guy... just funny looking). We're slowly putting the word out. I even told my mom... and she didn't fall over dead!
It will come. I know I will.
Originally Posted by kjm
hey match and terr,
just wanted to let you know that I "myspaced" both of the Boston males I know and a good lady friend in Cambridge to see if she knows anybody.
No harm in asking right???
You are amazing! Thank you so much. That was so sweet of you. (We also myspace... we put a few feelers out, but haven't received any responses. We kinda felt like Tina and Bet when they were trying to hook up with a guy soley to "steal his sperm.") Please let me know if anyone bites!
Ok...So is there a way to put a rush on finding a donor? Match (who dislikes me calling her DW) is currently putting together a new dresser... for a baby we don't yet have.
(This of course in addition to the bins of baby clothes, toys and books we already have).