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I have to say goodbye. Update post # 65

post #1 of 65
11/30/07 at 7:56pm
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I went in for my 17 week check today, couldn't find the heartbeat with the doppler. I had two ultrasounds and and there was no heartbeat on that either. No idea what may have happened, but it looks like baby passed about 2 weeks ago. :

I'm still pretty numb right now, and have some decisions to make here soon. I just wanted to stop in and say goodbye to you all.

I wish you all wonderful, uncomplicated pregnancies and beautiful, healthy babies!
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post #2 of 65
11/30/07 at 7:57pm
Oh my goodness! What a horrible shock! I'm so sorry vermillion. Just when we thought we were all past this shit...

I am thinking of you.
post #3 of 65
11/30/07 at 8:03pm


I'm so very sorry.

-Angela
post #4 of 65
11/30/07 at 8:06pm
Oh no, I'm so very sorry.
post #5 of 65
11/30/07 at 8:08pm
to you

Try to take care of yourself, I'm sorry you're leaving.
post #6 of 65
11/30/07 at 8:09pm
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Thank you.

Please send me and my family strength to get through this, as well as positive thoughts for delivery, as I think that is what I am going to go with, rather than the D&E.

post #7 of 65
11/30/07 at 8:11pm
Sending so much strength, positivity, and love your way.... +++++++++
post #8 of 65
11/30/07 at 8:14pm


Thinking of you, mama. I am so sorry.
post #9 of 65
11/30/07 at 8:18pm
I am soooo sorry for your loss mama! I cannot imagine how heartbreaking this is for you and your family!! Sending LOTS of prayers and hugs your way!!
post #10 of 65
11/30/07 at 8:18pm

I am so so sorry. I've been there, almost at the exact same place. Love and strength to you.
post #11 of 65
11/30/07 at 8:23pm
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Quote:
Originally Posted by LittleRockstar View Post

I am so so sorry. I've been there, almost at the exact same place. Love and strength to you.
This far along?

If you feel comfortable, could you tell me what you did for deliviering or whatnot? I need to choose and I'm just so damn confused right now.
post #12 of 65
11/30/07 at 8:37pm
The first time (15 weeks 4 days) I tried to deliver, but I had a large fibroid in the way. I imagine you're not having that problem. After trying everything (I was begging) they dilated me to a ten way too rapidly (I do NOT recommend this), they ended up heavily sedating me and taking it.

The second time (15 weeks 3 days) I flipped out, panicked, and got so hysterical that DH decided they should do the D & E. I so didn't want them to do the D&C part of it, but they did, both times.

I thankfully don't remember anything after the drugs.

I'm debating on whether to post this because I was NOT good at this and I don't want to upset you further. It's a very personal decision. If this is too upsetting or just not helpful, please tell me and I'll delete it.

If I had it to do again (without the fibroid), I'd try to deliver again.
post #13 of 65
11/30/07 at 8:37pm
I'm sorry Mama.

For your little one
post #14 of 65
11/30/07 at 9:01pm
oh hon, i am so sorry.
post #15 of 65
11/30/07 at 9:03pm
Oh no. I am so sorry. Sending you and your family peaceful thoughts and prayers.
post #16 of 65
11/30/07 at 9:05pm
You and your family are in my thoughts.
post #17 of 65
11/30/07 at 9:16pm
Oh no! I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. :
post #18 of 65
11/30/07 at 9:22pm
So sorry!
post #19 of 65
11/30/07 at 9:23pm
I'm so sorry for your loss.
post #20 of 65
11/30/07 at 9:29pm
I am so, so, so sorry.
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