I'm no gazzelle either. And I don't follow DR to the letter. Dh would have a fit if I tried.
I did cut the grocery budget, but mostly because I started eating and cooking differently to be healthier and lose some weight. Dh isn't as involved as I am and while he wants to be debt-free, getting there is up to me. (This can be trying at times, but I prefer to be the one in control of the cash and he prefers to go along for the ride)
I can't cut back on much, we live pretty frugally as it is. But our lunch out once or twice a month is not something we're willing to forgo. Twenty-five bucks, and dh has a beer or two with it, can't beat it. We get to feel like we're out on a date!
This week we're all going to a movie as a family. DD, her new dh, teh three girls, and dh and I. Everyone, except dd and her dh, have jobs, so everyone can buy their own ticket. We;ll do the matinee. It's only $4.50 ea and we usually just buy a giant popcorn, which comes with free refills. If I'm really smart, I'll bring a bunch of lunch bags and we'll be able to divide it up without having to pass it back and forth every few minutes!
Sometimes dh just NEEDS to spend a little money. $20 or so makes him soooo happy. He buys a car model and comes home just delighted. Every day is one day of our life. If we were to die tomorrow, I wouldn't want to think we'd denied ourselves $20 worth of joy!!!!
(I enjoy stashing that same $20, ao I do!)
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