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It's December, and I'm Still Pregnant *Whine Alert!*  

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Between this prolonged/prodromal labor, my muscles actually getting sore enough to feel fatigued, the pressure/heaviness in the crotch area, suddenly not being able to sleep for any longer than 2 or 3 hours at a time (I used to sleep through the night til a few days ago)......Between all that, and Junior's little internal "look what I can do, mom!" episodes today, I honestly feel worn out/pooped.....

Today's contraction entertainment included a new stunt from the baby----Fighting against the contractions! Instead of being immobilized for a minute or 2 during them, Junior apparently decided they'd had enough of being squeezed, and kicked, punched and stretched (and still is) through every contraction. The kicking/punching is one thing, but the stretching??? My god, this kid's freakishly strong! Is it normal for a baby at this point to even be able to achieve that kind of movement??? And every internal spot those little feet/fists were planted is sooooo sore, I feel like I was jabbed with a broom handle or something....I've had it with this new stretching stunt, it hurts worse than the contractions do :

DH and I decided to run over to the corner store and grab a few things (the cats needed food anyway) today....At that point, I figured a walk was going to do one of 3 things----Intensify things and maybe speed them up, calm things down, or do nothing at all. Ironically, it was a combo of the 3, the contractions slowed a little, crotch pressure intensified, baby actually calmed down, but overall throughout the rest of the day and night, nothing's really any different one way or the other :
One of the cashiers in the store, an older lady maybe in her 60's, looked at me and said, "Oh honey! You look more than ready for that baby to come out!" I got the feeling she wasn't saying it to be rude or anything like that, I probably had "ENOUGH! I'M DONE!!!" written all over my face I just said, "I've been ready for a while now!"

Oh, and I was talking to my mom in the morning, and she really kinda derailed some of her previous comforting comments' effectiveness......First, she's a little oblivious---"Oh, that's probably not contractions, I bet the little load just shifted and is straining your muscles." : She uses a lot of "blonde logic", so more often than not when she said something that qualifies as outright dumb, I ignore it, and I ignored that one.
Second, I really didn't want to know she had lengthy week+ long early labor with all 3 of us kids. So you're saying this extended PITA contraction crap is probably genetics, then? Thaaaaaanks mom, of all the things to inherit from you, why THIS? :

And to top it off, it's about a quarter to 2am, and it's December 1st! And I'm still pregnant!!!! The only thing keeping me sane is remembering since my DD was calculated with the start of the LMP formula, I'm more than likely really only 41-42 weeks, not 43......But still.....This baby's definately a first on both sides of the family, no relatives to either one of us have a birthday past the end of November, so this is DEFINATELY going to be the first December baby between 2 families! DH is Italian, and his family....Well, it's frickin' huge, but even with all those countless relatives, December's the only month no one was born in. Everyone in my family (somewhat large Irish family, but not as big as DH's) was born between January and September, so I was actually REALLY hoping for an October baby--specifically a Halloween baby--but Junior here has other ideas.
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I am right there with ya. I am determined to have a better today. Yesterday was another pity party / crying session. My sister is coming to visit, so hopefully staying out of the house and spending time with family will keep my mind off things. I really thought last night might be the night. Not that I have had anything I would even classify as a contraction though. TONS of BH - like 3-5 an hour. But they don't really hurt. I never thought I would be wishing for pain, but I wish they would hurt.
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I feel for ya ladies. But us pp moms are still here with support for you. s
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Can I join in the whine session? I'm overdue too and the baby has not dropped and I dont even have signs of prelabor. I know that its impossible to be pregnant FOREVER, but at this point this is what it feels like

I have to go in for a NST/Ultrasound on Monday to see if there's any medical reason why this baby isn't dropping and I'm scared. I was planning a homebirth and my window is getting smaller and smaller. I've been really discouraged and depressed the last two days and I'm hoping that today's a better day.

Hang in there mama!
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I don't know if this is well-received, but do you think the baby is distressed during cx's and that's why it's fighting?
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I don't know if this is well-received, but do you think the baby is distressed during cx's and that's why it's fighting?
Mentally maybe, but I'm not hearing anything different through the stetho as far as HR goes---Both baby and the placenta sound fine. Best educated guess I can come up with is they probably just don't like being squeezed that much....I know I'd be a little ticked if I had no room and was getting bear-hugged body-wide like that, too
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right there with you.
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Hmm, maybe it DID have something to do with lack of room (Junior and the contraction game)
Be forewarned, TMI ahead:
I had a, um, "clean you out" BM a while ago, and baby's not fighting with the contractions right now. Still moving, but not stretching out so much like before. HR's no different, either. I'm wondering if maybe everything being so squished around in there if maybe there was pressure that was uncomfortable for them?? I know I feel a HUGE pressure difference now, like 10 lbs of air vacated my intestines (along with 10 lbs of everything solid the intestines ushered out)

And I have hubby to thank for the inspired BM---We had cajun scrambled eggs for breakfast, and they were VERY spicey
post #9 of 11
Sounds like that's one more symptom of pre-labor and I BETCHA that was babe's problem with all that poo and air.
post #10 of 11
I'm sorry Lizzie. I know how tired and mentally worn out I am and that you are feeling it too, and then for you to be physically dealing with so much prodromal labor as well... (((HUGS)))

Were your mom's labors short after all that prodromal stuff? At least that would be one positive to hope for.

Sheesh, I hope your baby will decide to come out soon. This is feeling insane!
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I'm sorry Lizzie. I know how tired and mentally worn out I am and that you are feeling it too, and then for you to be physically dealing with so much prodromal labor as well... (((HUGS)))

Were your mom's labors short after all that prodromal stuff? At least that would be one positive to hope for.

Sheesh, I hope your baby will decide to come out soon. This is feeling insane!
I'm not sure about her labors after prodromal, she didn't mention that. I'm hoping things just suddenly speed up for me out of the blue, even DH is getting a little impatient. He "knocked" on my stomach last night going, "Hellooo? I know you're in there, don't you think it's time to come out yet?....Huh, no response, I think they're practicing ignoring me already." I asked him if he was getting a little bored and tired of waiting, and the exasperated response was, "Well, YEAH, I'd like to actually cuddle this kid some day!"
At least I have company in the boat here in this house now.
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