Wow, MMM, what a terrible thing for your doctor to ever say. Other people's ignorance rarely surprises me, but what you described really cuts.
Keep your chin up. It'll happen the ol' fashioned lesbian way soon enough, no icky hetero sex required.
As for me, thanks for all the advice with my poll. I ordered 2 vials to be shipped to Houston where we will be next week. Hopefully the travel won't throw things off, and, frankly, Mom is a little weirded out but knows enough to not admit it for a second. I also went ahead and paid for two more vials for next month because our bank is raising its prices.
I'll keep everybody posted, and in the meantime good luck to everybody with inseminations coming up, hugs to those faced with the BFN, and peace and serenity to everyone taking a break.