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Don't pump too much when you are engorged or you'll just keep encouraging those boobs to make too much and prolong your misery.
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Don't pump too much when you are engorged or you'll just keep encouraging those boobs to make too much and prolong your misery.
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Get a boppy.
And for you first timers-your arms are gonna be a little sore while you learn to nurse. Those muscles holding your baby arent used to being used 20 times a day! LOL. I was totally not prepared for that. |
this arrangement so much!

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YES. In fact, if you have generous parents/in laws/family members who will buy you presents, get TWO. We have a 'bedroom' boppy and a 'living room' boppy so there is always one on the floor of the house I want to nurse on. I
this arrangement so much! |
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Just when you think you are done with the pain of labor and can sit back and admire your newborn, they will make you do more work and push the placenta out. It will seem horribly unfair.
Homeopathic arnica is great for the swelling those first few days. Homeopathic hypericum is like a miracle for the raw/sore/tender feeling that persists for a while. I take it until sex doesn't hurt and trust me, when I run out, I can tell a difference even just wiping myself! If you've had more than one child, be prepared for the afterpains. Especially when nursing. You may have to breathe through them just like ctx. Even a natural birthing mama may find herself reaching for ibuprofen or wishing for something stronger! Don't pump too much when you are engorged or you'll just keep encouraging those boobs to make too much and prolong your misery. Your newborn really can latch onto a boob that is bigger than his or her head. They do not even seem intimidated by it! No matter how much smaller and slimmer you feel than when you were pregnant, or how much you think you gained weight only in your belly, your butt and thighs will not fit into your old jeans for a long while. Don't even try. Stick with the yoga pants and no one gets hurt! |
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And am I the only one who didn't have to push out a placenta. I mean, I could feel the contraction and I knew it was coming but I was sitting up and I just stuck a bowl under there and it mostly just plopped out, there wasn't any work involved. It was actually nice and soothing after passing a child through there, it was like a wipe-down.
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postpartum smells NASTY. for those first timers. for about 3 days its a good idea to get adult diapers. they are so wonderful to catch all that...uhhh...stuff.
Pads just dont cut it for me the first days postpartum. LOVE ADULT DIAPERS. THEY ARE A DREAM COME TRUE! |

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Great idea Lisa.
I remember being totally sideswiped by everything postpartum - it was a "what the cluck? I thought the hard part was over!" kind of feeling. I'm getting SPANX for my PP abdomen. Not to look slim, I could care less about my huge swollen abdomen - but to keep my organs from falling out. I remember walking around hunched over like a little old lady, because I genuinely felt like my organs were spilling out. . |
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I had this same problem with DD. Which spanx are you going to get? I still have my "corset" the hospital gave me last time. (I complained so much, they gave it to me.)
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: - just had to tough it out last time.