read "Woman on the Edge of Time". It's an excellent story about a woman who has been in and out of mental institutions, and suddenly begins claiming to have been to the future. She travels back and forth between the present and what everyone else assumes to be a fantasy world.
In the fantasy/future, a man named Bee lovingly nurses his baby. At first I was a bit disgusted, but after reading it a few times, I began to see it for what it was. Love and nourishment.
Also, as a young teen I had this great doctor who used to discuss odd things with me, kinda like Dr. Oz. He told me once that there was a school of thought that supported the idea that MEN HAVE NIPPLES
because they used to nurse, too.
I just asked dh if he would nurse our baby if I couldn't and he could. He said, "What do you mean?" I had to say it a few times before he understood I ws serious, then he said, "Of course!"
I don't see any probelm wiht it. Well, he'd have to wax
but other than that, I thinkn it would be grand.