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post #1 of 14
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up until this point i had very little to complain about with this pregnancy. Sure, i had your typical sore back, tiredness, but no big deal. I started out this week with this mild cough. No other symptoms. Basically just felt like one of those "the air is really dry" type coughs. Just a tickle in my throat. The cough, was basically just annoying. And then on Thursday, i woke up, and my belly was sore from coughing, felt like you would if you did too many sit-ups. And then in the night, early friday morning, like 3am.... i coughed SO hard, i pulled something in my stomach. Severely. Like, screaming in pain. Bawling my eyes out. I scared my poor DH. Not to mention DS who is 3 and sleeps with us, he kept running away. My husband, bless his heart, was like "are you in labor??" i screamed NO! But i would welcome that at this point, that might actually feel GOOD compared to this. I almost went to the hospital in the night. I'm glad now that I didnt, because i was in so much pain, i probably would have consented to anything, including a lobotomy or sex change, if i thought it would make the pain stop.
Then the next morning, i did something i havent done in over 3 years. I went and saw a Dr. I called my friend and asked if she would watch my kids so i could go. She panicked for a minute, because she knows me, and seeing a Dr. is a very serious thing for me. Luckily, we have an awesome family doctor. Who knows I am UCing, that we dont vax, and all that other crazy hippy stuff and he respects me for it. He said it looks like i pulled a couple abdominal muscles. My belly was already overstretched due to the pregnancy, and then the cough just further strained it. Oh, and I have an ear infection! I had forgotten that my ear was hurting the night before, once the abdominal pain hit, i forgot nearly everything. So i'm doing something i have not done in nearly 4 years. I'm taking medication. I hate it. But I cannot live like that. Screaming in pain, and not being able to breathe just wont work. I feel SO guilty. He gave my tylenol with codiene, just to take for when its unbearable, and to quiet the cough until my muscle heals. Which he said will be difficult, since it is still continually stretching. I hate the thought of taking narcotics while pregnant. Especially this close to the end. All i could think of was the little crack baby i took care of in nursing school. Something that still haunts me to to this day. My Dr. assured me that baby would be fine. But i still hate it.

thanks for listening to me whine
post #2 of 14
Oh mama that royally blows. But I think its a good idea to do whatever you have to do to stay well, so you can give birth, ya know?
post #3 of 14


I had pneumonia when pg with dd#1 and gah it sucked. I wish you lots of *fast* and complete healing. Your poor belly!
post #4 of 14
Poor thing!! Your baby needs you to be mended and ready for labor - don't second guess yourself.
post #5 of 14
Wow, that sounds really tough,hang in there mama. I hope you are feeling better soon.
post #6 of 14
im sorry i hope you feel better!
post #7 of 14
I'm so sorry, I hope things get better quick!
post #8 of 14
Hope you are feeling better.

Christa
post #9 of 14
Poor girl! Take care of yourself! I did the same thing earlier in the pregnancy, except I pulled a muscle from vomiting so much around week 16 and it hurt SO BAD that as a result of my description of the HORRID pain, my midwife told me to go to the hospital, because it sounded like appendicitis!!!!!!! So I totally understand the extent of the pain!
post #10 of 14
Do what you have to do to take care of yourself.
post #11 of 14
Lots of fast healing vibes so you don't need to take the pain meds for long
post #12 of 14


I've been sick lately too, with a cough, and was wondering what would happen if I coughed too hard. I hope your belly feels better soon! That's awesome though that you have such a wonderful family doctor.
post #13 of 14
Awww, I had to giggle at your crack baby fear. You know that a little Tylenol with codeine won't give your baby crack baby issues. That would be haunting, though.

When your lungs are all compressed, those respiratory issues can be way way worse, and breathing IS important.

to help your tummy muscles feel better while you're recovering, try some light tummy massage with whatever cream or lotion you have. I pulled a tummy muscle laughing when pg with baby #4 and it hurt for over a week afterward, I didn't know the massage trick and with this preg I had a similar pain (from lifting something I shouldn't have been lifting) and the massage made it go away in just a few days.

Feel better, and don't be upset with yourself for getting help. You know you used your best judgement, that's what UC/UP are about for me, using my judgement to make my own decisions. No one can fault you for that. You won't have a crack baby. You will have a beautiful, perfect, whole, smart, happy baby whose mommy isn't in excruciating pain (other than normal labor, birth & post-partum pain).

Enjoy...
post #14 of 14
^ I agree with Lisa, and I know you probably know this - but overall, opiates pose very little risk in small therapeutic doses. (Opiates overall are actually pretty safe, outside of overdosing and addiction - they don't wear on the body very much.)

I pulled a muscle (temporarly, pain only seemed to last an hour or two) the other night shovelling my giant toddler into bed, climbing over my DP. It hurt like the dickens, and I can't even imagine coughing with that pain. s On top of all the other pain, I'm sure having extreme abdominal pain just makes everything worse.
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