Good question!
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12/10/07 at 7:25pm
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I am sure the message is out that BF is best, as 80-90% of American mamas attempt to BF their newborns. Then by 6 weeks only 30% remain. These mothers are being failed by someone. The babies are losing. How can we turn the tide?
Formula can be dangerous. I know adults with chronic illness that can be directly traced to FF, gluten allergies, extreme food allergies, IBS, etc. Plus the runaway breast cancer rates of all those women who were not fed breast milk from 1940-1970. ![]() How did the tide turn against cigarettes? A few nasty lawsuits? Reputable scientific studies? |
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And even after all my research on the subject, if someone told me how "dangerous" formula is to babies, I would have rolled my eyes at them. Formula is second best, for sure, but dangerous? Come on.
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I actually disagree, because I think it is better for BFing to be considered normal, rather than being "special" or "better" than FFing. That article about the language of breastfeeding summed it up well for me. I think it should be pointed out that FF babies have higher risk of obesity, SIDS, sickness, etc because it is fact. If it is put that way rather than harping on about the benefits of BFing, I think it would make more people stop and think about their choices.
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I'm shocked that so many people think it's okay to offend others in such ways. Yes, breastfeeding is best. But I'm confused about what people think it accomplishes when you say "your kid is going to be obese and sick because you feed him formula." It's really not going to change anything except perhaps formula feeders feel even more strongly that breastfeeders are rude and pushy.
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I wouldn't even compare it to FFing. Just point out the wonderfulness of BFing. Period.
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There are a million ways to promote the benefits of breastmilk. But making the mothers the bad guys in all this is incredibly short-sighted. I'm sure you know that there are a number of valid reasons why a mother can't BF or supply BM to her child. And it's not always about selfishness or lack of willpower.
So how about contacting your congressman about BF-friendly workplaces ... or extending short-term disability (like here in NJ) terms to longer than 6 weeks so that a better BFing relationship builds between mother and baby ... or eliminating "freebies" in doctors offices and hospitals so that moms that are on the fence about whether they want to BF are encouraged to at least try breastfeeding first? For women to choose BFing first, and to continue to BF longer, our society needs to take some serious steps in creating a BF-friendly environment. |
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But I think this is where the paradigm shift needs to occur. Breastfeeding isn't wonderful. It isn't magical or miraculous or super special. It's the biological norm. Formula isn't. And the formula industry has convinced the public that it is.
In a vacuum, I wouldn't really have an issue with your position. But in a society that says "Breastfeeding is the gold standard, but hey, we all do what we can, and formula feeding is fine too" we need to speak the truth. The truth is, there are dangers that come with using formula. The truth is, that when a mother chooses not to breastfeed, her baby is more likely to have certain health issues, and is more likely to die. Do I think we should attack individual women with these facts? Absolutely not. But I think we need to start getting them out there in the broader arena of ideas, because they're true. I can't imagine a doctor withholding information on the importance of putting babies in carseats because not every mother can afford a carseat, or it might make a mother who chooses not to use a carseat feel guilty, or using a carseat might be less convenient to her then just holding the baby. I think it's going to take a balance of positive and negative to turn the tide back towards the biological norm of breastfeeding. |
: I can't say it better so I won't even try.
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Honestly? That kind of inflammatory statement (re: the "dangers" of formula) will only serve to alienate and malign mothers who have had to choose formula over what they KNOW is best -- breastmilk.
There are a million ways to promote the benefits of breastmilk. But making the mothers the bad guys in all this is incredibly short-sighted. I'm sure you know that there are a number of valid reasons why a mother can't BF or supply BM to her child. And it's not always about selfishness or lack of willpower. So how about contacting your congressman about BF-friendly workplaces ... or extending short-term disability (like here in NJ) terms to longer than 6 weeks so that a better BFing relationship builds between mother and baby ... or eliminating "freebies" in doctors offices and hospitals so that moms that are on the fence about whether they want to BF are encouraged to at least try breastfeeding first? For women to choose BFing first, and to continue to BF longer, our society needs to take some serious steps in creating a BF-friendly environment. That's my opinion, anyway. I breastfed my son for 22 months, and am still BFing my 15mo daughter because that is what I chose to do after educating myself ... but I might have made a different choice if I was not a SAHM or if I had a medical condition that required me to stop BFing. And even after all my research on the subject, if someone told me how "dangerous" formula is to babies, I would have rolled my eyes at them. Formula is second best, for sure, but dangerous? Come on. |
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Right on. I agree. It is much better to teach mothers why breastfeeding is best than try to teach them that formula is not good for any reason. You just make enemies. Plus, it denigrates the experience of millions of women who you really should have on your side. And, saying formula is going to make your baby die is just hyperbole. Further alienating. Not good for the cause at all.
In my county, there is a breastfeeding coalition that puts posters on the sides of buses. That is cool! It says "Breastfeeding: Recommended for at least one year. The Healthy Choice for Moms and Babies." |
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And, saying formula is going to make your baby die is just hyperbole. Further alienating. Not good for the cause at all.
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