quick m/c advice please??

[KelliHope]

I know this probably isn't the right section for this, but I'm hoping for quick response and thought this group might be active to I'm cross posting from the birth loss group. I'm sorry for posting in the wrong spot.

if anyone is online, I need quick advice. I am scheduled for a d&c tomorrow but I really want to do this on my own tonight. I starting walking, doing nipple stimulation, etc. about 5pm. It is now 9:30 and I had had bad cramping, lots of bleeding, then passed a blood clot about the size of . . .an egg maybe? Like a chicken egg. Now my cramping has eased up quite a lot, and the bleeding has slowed down. Was that it?
I was 10 weeks along, but the midwife said it probably stopped growing around 7 weeks.

Thank you!

[Kabes]

I am so sorry for your loss.
I've had two miscarriages at 8 weeks. Both were like heavy periods with clots and more cramping. I'm thinking your done. If I were you I would ask to be checked tomorrow before they started the D & C to see if it is still needed.

[Serenity Now]

If you don't want the D&C, then you don't have to get it. I have had both, and prefer m/c at home, so I won't do a D&C again, plus I've had 2, and they don't want me to have more than that.

As far as I know there is no way to bring on a m/c. It will happen in its own time.

I'm sorry for your loss.