how I might better present my case. I'm truly not all that interested in hearing how some of you would leave your husband if he wouldn't change his stance. Just looking for some sound support here....
It sounds like you've presented your spouse with information from all sides of the circ/intact argument. It sounds like he's not willing to admit to the harm of circ and how leaving baby intact is the bet decision. I don't know that there's any magical formula to make him "see the light". I am foggy-minded with cold virus right now and I'm sure I'm not articulating well but this isn't going to be a situation where compromise is an option. But if your husband wins the argument, it's your son who will lose something.