I love this idea. I just moved back to the U.S. from Africa, where we lived a very simple life. It was difficult and expensive to buy things in Africa, and many didn't even exist/ were outlawed, such as plastic bags. It is amazing how people can make do when they have to. We threw almost nothing away. We kept and reused everything, not on principle, but as a matter of necessity. Everything was precious. The irony is I don't think most of my African friends would ever be able to wrap their minds around decluttering, because they would never have enough stuff to need to get rid of it. Anything they might not want would surely be a very precious gift to a friend or family member. Most of our neighbors had next to nothing in their homes. They bought all their clothing in used clothing markets and even that did not feel cheap to them (most people had 3-7 outfits at most that they handwashed constantly). Most people do not have running water, electricity, ovens, refrigerators. For most people buying something new in a store, or even food in a package is almost unthinkable.
It is weird to be back here. We sold everything before we left, and now as we are rebuilding our life here, I feel a need to buy lots of things (containers for food storage, towels, socks, underwear, bras, baskets for storage, potholders, picture frames, etc.). Its adding up. I got myself a Costco membership, and have made more trips to target than I want to think-- I'm embarassed to admit. In Africa, my sons got used to having very few things, and their play was so much more creative... Now they are in school and my 6-year-old always wants the things his friends are talking about (transformers, etc.). I feel we are being sucked into consumerism.
I am really glad to find this idea. Maybe it will help me to find a way to bring the way of living I learned in Africa to our life here. It seemed almost impossible to me yesterday, but reading this thread gives me hope. Thank you.
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