that you planned on UC'ing. I ask this mostly for curiosity sake. I've had 2 c-sections and one vbac (between the sections). I'ave always wanted to homebirth but hubby wasn't comfortable with it. We've talked ALOT about it as of lately, and have decided that if/when we get pregannt again barring no complications we'll have a homebirth with a midwife. However, I'm REALLY leaning towards a UC, but hubby would never ever ever go for that. A homebirth is a stretch...I do think he would however be able to handle an "accident" uc as in we don't call the midwife in time or whatever. Has anybody planned a uc with their husband thinking it would be a midwife attended birth? I'm not saying this is something i'd actually do. In reality, it's not as I respect my husbands wishes and feel like i would need him to be totally supportive and not want to deceive him, BUT then there' s that tiny part of me.
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12/17/07 at 5:40pm