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My sis (a single mom to a wonderful 6 yr old girl) is planning to start homeschooling right after Christmas.

She is worried about how it will go--she sometimes has a difficult time being with her dd all day long on the days she is not at school, and wonders how she will handle full time homeschooling. Sis is notoriously hard on herself and I'm trying to get her to relax and not worry so much--I think there will be a difficult transition, and it won't ever be really easy, but that in the end there will be so many benefits.

Just some background--sis and I were homeschooled. Her dd has been in school since JK (age 4) and lately has been making herself sick so that she doesn't have to go to school. She does alright in school--it's just not the right thing to keep her interest and not the right learning environment for her. I think it may be quite difficult to get her to do formal schoolwork, so I've told my sister that I think it's best to unschool at least for a while, which she agrees with. There are a lot of group events for homeschoolers in our area--they will get involved with that and also get together with us at least one day a week.

I'm looking for anything you want to share--encouragement, stories, particularly from moms who haven't hs'd all along, and also single hs'ing moms. What was the transition like?
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Originally Posted by mummy marja View Post
My sis (a single mom to a wonderful 6 yr old girl) is planning to start homeschooling right after Christmas.

She is worried about how it will go--she sometimes has a difficult time being with her dd all day long on the days she is not at school, and wonders how she will handle full time homeschooling. Sis is notoriously hard on herself and I'm trying to get her to relax and not worry so much--I think there will be a difficult transition, and it won't ever be really easy, but that in the end there will be so many benefits.

Just some background--sis and I were homeschooled. Her dd has been in school since JK (age 4) and lately has been making herself sick so that she doesn't have to go to school. She does alright in school--it's just not the right thing to keep her interest and not the right learning environment for her. I think it may be quite difficult to get her to do formal schoolwork, so I've told my sister that I think it's best to unschool at least for a while, which she agrees with. There are a lot of group events for homeschoolers in our area--they will get involved with that and also get together with us at least one day a week.

I'm looking for anything you want to share--encouragement, stories, particularly from moms who haven't hs'd all along, and also single hs'ing moms. What was the transition like?
It IS hard to be with young ones (and probably older ones too though I'm not there yet) all day long. But just because it is hard sometimes doesn't mean it's not worthwhile as you well know. I just wanted to say that you might search these threads and give your sister some information about deschooling if she isn't already planning to do it. Spend time at the parks playing, go to the zoo, bake cookies but give her time to deschool and get her old curiousity and zest for learning back.
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It IS hard to be with young ones (and probably older ones too though I'm not there yet) all day long. But just because it is hard sometimes doesn't mean it's not worthwhile as you well know. I just wanted to say that you might search these threads and give your sister some information about deschooling if she isn't already planning to do it. Spend time at the parks playing, go to the zoo, bake cookies but give her time to deschool and get her old curiousity and zest for learning back.
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mummy marja, how is it going? I just wanted to say I am happy for your sister that she is making this decision. Many single moms don' think (and many really can't) they can homeschool. It's great that she's exploring her options. I second the deschooling. I also want to say that remember her dd is so young yet. Homeschooling the early grades is so much fun. Do they live in a colder or warmer climate?
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I've never heard the term "deschooling' until now. We have been talking about this and I think my sister is definiteyl planning to do this. They live close by to us, and we are planning to get together often for informal together time. We live in northern Ontario--long winters. Sister is living beside a lake surrounded by woods to explore. I don't think they will run out of things to do!
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