Well, we're on step one and then we'll need to do step2. But then we'll be skipping steps 3, 4 and phooey! I forget which ones are which!
Dh is nearing retirement, (less than 3 years) and the kids are paying for their own college educations. When he retires we'll have his annuity which is considerably more than 3 to 6 months worth of living expenses. Really we just need to get it together, (step 1) Pay down our debt and then our mortgage.
Then we can either build wealth and give, or sit back and enjoy retirement. We'll even have enough for some traveling, and dinners out.
Dinner out. *sigh* I can't remember the last time we went out to dinner. Lunch, sometimes. But not dinner, with like a nice outfit in about.....5 or 6 years!
Life is so strange. Years of not being aboe to afford to do anything, and if we just pay off some stuff now, we'll be golden is a few years. (I've been broke alllllllllll my life!)