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Originally Posted by UUMom 
All of the Korean teens I know who attend private secondary boarding schools here (not college-- secondary schools-- high school) already speak perfect English. They are here because the competition for slots in Korean schools are open to only so many, and can be quite the pressure cooker for those not cut out for the pressure cooker. If you aren't testing a certain way right away, you don't get a spot. If your parents don't have money, you are pretty much out of the running, unless you have shown yourself to be intellectualy special (and have excellent test-taking skills) in some way. This has nothing whasoever to do with cultural Korean or Indian pride. These kids go home. Their parents have not emmigrated.
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Do you mean these kids come for secondary boarding school, stay through college and then go home in order to avoid the pressure cooker of the college entrance exam and getting into a top notch university? If so, that makes sense. There are a lot of Koreans that don't like the pressure of the current education system and may choose to "opt out" like that for their kids if they have the money to do so.
It's also a status thing to be able to send your child abroad for school. It is kind of a Korean pride thing, but it's really hard I think for Americans to understand as it's complex to understand how a particular society ticks unless you've been inside it. I had a student who came here to the US to secondary boarding school and intended to stay through college before returning home. It was for her to become fluent in English and experience living abroad, but since pretty much all Korean women marry and have families and most discontinue working, it really comes down to status.
Koreans can learn to speak English fairly well after many years of private institute instruction with a native speaker (which most do), but it would be a real stretch to say it is
perfect English. Speaking English in Korea is really different than speaking English in the US. Immersion in the language works wonders

I watched this fascinating journey with my own dh. He was a good English speaker before coming here, yet he struggled hard the first few years in the US. Eleven years later he's improved immensely and is fluent but definitely not
perfect. It makes for lots of funny stories

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