Orgasm while preggo? Weird! - Page 2
sigh - you all are lucky! It was always easy for me to orgasm, but since I have been pregnant this time, I can't - it just won't work! It will just build, then everything will stop, it's just like a sneeze that doesn't happen, kwim? That's pretty weird here.
Orgasms were very normal last time, although I did notice it would give me a contraction or two.
Orgasms in PregnancyMy first symptom to give me a clue I was pregnant was that after each orgasm I had really intense cramping. Over the past couple weeks it's gotten a little better, but it is still happening. It doesn't make me avoid it or anything, but it is kind of a downer to end up feeling pain after sex.
I've experienced the same post-orgasm tightness. Sometimes it feels like a slight contraction, and aches a bit too.
Since being pregnant, I've also experienced spontaneous orgasms for the first time--usually while sleeping. That's been pretty wild. I must say, though, that I'm far more interested in self-lovin' these days. Relations with my DH are often uncomfortable.
lol...the vibrator thing never really interested me...I'll just wait and live vicariously through you guys for now ...I feel like by the time we finally get together I won't know how to maneuver with whatever my size is
You don't need a vibrator for that either... for me it's mostly about clitoral stimulation ---all you need is a finger that doesn't tire easily
I seem to have a mixture of it all, but like the OP, I do seem to feel "awkward" or "uncomfortable" about it afterward and not go for it as often as I might like. Sometimes I have the stronger O, sometimes there's the intense build-up but I can never quite get there (I think this part is probably a bit of a mental block knowing what will come afterward). It's irritating that it holds me back - because I always have a much higher libido during pregnancy, once I get past the "morning" sickness.
This made me chuckle because my experience was the exact opposite. So I guess it is different for everyone.