I gave birth on 12/2 and am still bleeding. I keep thinking that it's done and then having a mess... Due to a cabinet mix-up, I used lighter pads before heavier ones and now I only have heavy ones left. They're not so comfortable now and I keep trying to go without. The sensible thing would be to go the store or wash my mama cloth...

Anyway, I'm not really sore anymore. With tandem nursing craziness, though, I'm not sure when I'll ever be ready to have sex...even when the lochia stops.