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Thank you all for the kind thoughts. I have had some time to think it over and have decided to just let it be with the funeral director. I am not really up to writing a letter and I did nurse during the service with a cover on. I wanted to respect my mom since it was her dad that died.

You are right about the whole liberal thing. That really bothered my too but I am getting used to those comments because I am the hippie of the family :

Thanks again...your comments made me feel so much better