We are undecided. I'd like 1 more, and DH wants to be done, but wouldn't refuse me something so important. BUT, this pregnancy has taken so much out of me. I don't know if my body could handle another one. So we're not making any decisions until this baby is 3. I wouldn't want another one before then anyway. (But would probably be giddy if it just "happened" to us!
DD is not an incredibly healthy girl, though she's having fantastic results with homeopathy. If this next child also suffers from health issues, then we definitely won't try for another one, out of consideration to that non-existant child. It would appear that my body just isn't healthy enough to produce healthy children if this happens again. Isn't it weird that we consider the "feelings" of children that don't even exist?
BUT, it *is* a little sad to think that this one might be our last baby. I think the blow is softened quite a bit since there is the possibility of a third in our future.