Today at my appointment I found out that I have high blood pressure. All pregnancy it's been perfect, and today it's 130/100!!! So my doctor (whom I'm still seeing even though I'm planning a home birth) sent me for blood work and another urine analysis and there are some abnormal results, although I don't know if it's 'cause I'm pregnant or not. So I'm a little worried.
I don't want to give up my home birth, I don't don't don't. I understand that the birth is a small part of this whole baby's life, but it's so important to me.
SO I don't know what I should be doing. The doctor is talking about pre eclampsia, but I have no protein in my urine according to her test, however on the other test I did today there was a trace. I don't have any swelling in my face, but my hands are often swollen, but my feet are not. Sigh. I'm just upset at the whole thing.
On the other hand my inlaws were just here and they always make me super anxious. My MIL and I are either very identical or so different that it's hard to be around her. We are both stubborn and set in our ways. She makes snide little comments that just set me off. Like with her second birth she chose the pain drugs because she wasn't "stupid enough to go without". Anyhow that upset me. And I also went all out and made sure that there was a feast planned for Christmas and Christmas Eve, so I did over do it. I know my body doesn't handle stress well, and it's always been fine, I deal with it in my own way, but now there is a little person counting on me, and ahhhh!
So, what to do??? Besides hope and wish that it's stress induced and some meditation and relaxation will help me out.
I don't want to give up my home birth, I don't don't don't. I understand that the birth is a small part of this whole baby's life, but it's so important to me.
SO I don't know what I should be doing. The doctor is talking about pre eclampsia, but I have no protein in my urine according to her test, however on the other test I did today there was a trace. I don't have any swelling in my face, but my hands are often swollen, but my feet are not. Sigh. I'm just upset at the whole thing.
On the other hand my inlaws were just here and they always make me super anxious. My MIL and I are either very identical or so different that it's hard to be around her. We are both stubborn and set in our ways. She makes snide little comments that just set me off. Like with her second birth she chose the pain drugs because she wasn't "stupid enough to go without". Anyhow that upset me. And I also went all out and made sure that there was a feast planned for Christmas and Christmas Eve, so I did over do it. I know my body doesn't handle stress well, and it's always been fine, I deal with it in my own way, but now there is a little person counting on me, and ahhhh!
So, what to do??? Besides hope and wish that it's stress induced and some meditation and relaxation will help me out.









This is where my knowledge about BP ends. What I'm saying is, though, from everything I can see, you're not in that much danger with only having ONE higher reading that was only 10 points higher (systolic) and you're not dumping protein or seeing spots and your swelling is minimal (sounds like normal end of preg swelling to me anyway). I think this is going to be totally manageable and that you will have your homebirth!

it is the bottom number that is the scarier one, so try to get that one down if you can, but if you just had one high reading, I wouldn't worry too much.