I should state, I'm in my mid-20s and happily childless. But I grew up watching my mother breastfeed, weaning my siblings after 2.5ish years each, and always thought it was obviously the greatest part of mothering a young child. Why would you do anything else--in fact, the main reason I would want a baby is to experience breastfeeding.
Anyway, I am currently a nutrition educator and do breastfeeding education as part of it. The other day I was ranting to my dad about how awful it is out there, and there are all these awful myths and women don't want to or think they can't breastfeed. If nothing else, he's from another culture, so he doesn't understand why a baby wouldn't be breastfed, and I appreciate that (I was like that before this job!). My (feminist) roommate overheard us, and interjected with a classic "but some women really can't breastfeed" comment, based on her nannying experience. I didn't want to get into it, so I left it alone. But now it's really bothering me, and I want to show her something so she knows if SHE ever has kids, or so she can assist a friend in the future.
Basically, she nannies, and now the baby is 6 months and the breastmilk isn't doing it--she had to introduce formula. The mom was exclusively breastfeeding and pumping for six months (obviously the mom is working, which I'm sure has an impact) and all of a sudden can't produce enough (there have been no sudden traumas, either)? Obviously supply and demand must be at work here, or something else external.
Is there some article I could send my roommate--not just the standard "supply and demand" deal, but addressing when milk starts to dry up when solids have been introed, around half a year? This is really bothering me, and I get so emotional talking about breastfeeding, so I think explaining it this way would work better than explaining in person. She also has the potential to be a real breastfeeding ally, otherwise I would just drop it.
Thanks for any suggestions. I figure it's good to have allies everywhere, to truly promote a breastfeeding culture.
Anyway, I am currently a nutrition educator and do breastfeeding education as part of it. The other day I was ranting to my dad about how awful it is out there, and there are all these awful myths and women don't want to or think they can't breastfeed. If nothing else, he's from another culture, so he doesn't understand why a baby wouldn't be breastfed, and I appreciate that (I was like that before this job!). My (feminist) roommate overheard us, and interjected with a classic "but some women really can't breastfeed" comment, based on her nannying experience. I didn't want to get into it, so I left it alone. But now it's really bothering me, and I want to show her something so she knows if SHE ever has kids, or so she can assist a friend in the future.
Basically, she nannies, and now the baby is 6 months and the breastmilk isn't doing it--she had to introduce formula. The mom was exclusively breastfeeding and pumping for six months (obviously the mom is working, which I'm sure has an impact) and all of a sudden can't produce enough (there have been no sudden traumas, either)? Obviously supply and demand must be at work here, or something else external.
Is there some article I could send my roommate--not just the standard "supply and demand" deal, but addressing when milk starts to dry up when solids have been introed, around half a year? This is really bothering me, and I get so emotional talking about breastfeeding, so I think explaining it this way would work better than explaining in person. She also has the potential to be a real breastfeeding ally, otherwise I would just drop it.
Thanks for any suggestions. I figure it's good to have allies everywhere, to truly promote a breastfeeding culture.











