I am 21 weeks pregnant with baby #3.
I had cause to see a cardiologist a few weeks ago for a little heart flutter.
He asked me who my OB was. I told him I am seeing a midwife. He asked me who she was associated with. I said she's independent. He looked concerned and expressed that he thought it was important that I have medical care. (Like a midwife isn't "medical care"!!!)
I told him I have a family practitioner who formerly was a midwife.
He went on to say that a woman of my age should have medical care. (I am 39.) And that if any issues arrose, that I should seek medical care. At which point I smiled at him and said "That's exactly why I am sitting here." I think he got it that he was preaching to the wrong party at that point. I mean, really, not seeking medical care would mean that I would just blow off that funny little thud with my heartbeat right?
Anyhow, he's young and I think he needs a little dose of facts. Do any of you have the maternal mortality stats for the US handy? I know we've not had any improvement in ranking in a very long time! I also know that we don't credit and track true maternal deaths properly. I saw Ina May Gaskin do a talk on this issue several years ago and I saw her quilt project. Truly gut wrenchingly sad! It made me cry!
I want to share some facts with him that I am sure he's not aware of.
I had cause to see a cardiologist a few weeks ago for a little heart flutter.
He asked me who my OB was. I told him I am seeing a midwife. He asked me who she was associated with. I said she's independent. He looked concerned and expressed that he thought it was important that I have medical care. (Like a midwife isn't "medical care"!!!)
I told him I have a family practitioner who formerly was a midwife.
He went on to say that a woman of my age should have medical care. (I am 39.) And that if any issues arrose, that I should seek medical care. At which point I smiled at him and said "That's exactly why I am sitting here." I think he got it that he was preaching to the wrong party at that point. I mean, really, not seeking medical care would mean that I would just blow off that funny little thud with my heartbeat right?
Anyhow, he's young and I think he needs a little dose of facts. Do any of you have the maternal mortality stats for the US handy? I know we've not had any improvement in ranking in a very long time! I also know that we don't credit and track true maternal deaths properly. I saw Ina May Gaskin do a talk on this issue several years ago and I saw her quilt project. Truly gut wrenchingly sad! It made me cry!
I want to share some facts with him that I am sure he's not aware of.







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