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post #41 of 111
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Originally Posted by azedazobollis View Post
Happy New Year! Does anyone watch Showtime' "The L Word" (respecting those who do not prefer television )? The premiere of the season was great!
I really wanted to love that show, but I couldn't get into it. I guess I'm the only one? It just seemed way too... fake (?) to me. I can't remember if I made it through the first season or not. That long/dark-haired main character girl's behaviour was kind of driving me nuts. I actually felt bad for her boyfriend or husband or whatever he was. Although, I think she was one of the better ones of the bunch. Meh... anyway... I do wish that I liked it though! Darnit.

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Originally Posted by Rhendi View Post
Kritto- My DH is bi. He felt that way since he was a teen but never had any experiences until recently. When he finally opened up to me it was like a whole new relationship bloomed between us! Now we're just one big happy BI couple!!
*super jealous*

I've actually had multiple boyfriends in the past that supposedly discovered that they were bi after being with me (but apparently ID as straight now, so I don't know if I was opening minds to new possibilities, or if I just somehow managed to confuse them...). However, my DP now is most definitely straight. No question. Straighter than the straightest board. Dammit. That figures. I really do think it would help things if he had some understanding of me (in that way) on his own personal level, but it's not going to happen.
post #42 of 111
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Originally Posted by bjorker View Post
I've actually had multiple boyfriends in the past that supposedly discovered that they were bi after being with me (but apparently ID as straight now, so I don't know if I was opening minds to new possibilities, or if I just somehow managed to confuse them...). However, my DP now is most definitely straight. No question. Straighter than the straightest board. Dammit. That figures. I really do think it would help things if he had some understanding of me (in that way) on his own personal level, but it's not going to happen.
my dp is straighter than yours

and I can imagine guys getting confused around you. I know I start feeling flustered and bedazzled when you're around
post #43 of 111
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Originally Posted by majikfaerie View Post
my dp is straighter than yours

and I can imagine guys getting confused around you. I know I start feeling flustered and bedazzled when you're around
You are so cute! lol!

I am so glad my husband opened up b/c it really makes things less complicated. He understands the different kind of desires that we can't give eachother...As much as I would love (well not really lol but it sounds a little less complicated) to live in a monogomous marriage ...I don't think it would ever work for me because he can't give me everything I desire and I can't give him everything he desires either- and I'm so glad he understands that and doesn't take it personal!!

NOW if only i could friggen find someone LOL!! He's had more luck than me- how did the tables turn so quickly?? LOL

I hope the rest of you are able to find a happy median with your spouses so that everyone is happy and true to themselves!

I like sharing pictures too! http://i219.photobucket.com/albums/c...y/100_2870.jpg
post #44 of 111
I so relate, rhendi. except for the open marriage part. and the bi partner part. and ...
well, "if only I could friggin find someone" rings pretty true

your dd has amazing eyes. (so do you, btw)
post #45 of 111
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Originally Posted by azedazobollis View Post
Happy New Year! Does anyone watch Showtime' "The L Word" (respecting those who do not prefer television )? The premiere of the season was great!
Shhhhhhh. No spoilers please. It really ticks me that a show that is filmed in Canada isn't shown until it's over in the US. The premiere of the 5th season won't be here until the end of Aug. I just finished watching the 4th right before Christmas. I can't wait to see it.
post #46 of 111
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Originally Posted by Rhendi View Post
I am so glad my husband opened up b/c it really makes things less complicated. He understands the different kind of desires that we can't give eachother...As much as I would love (well not really lol but it sounds a little less complicated) to live in a monogomous marriage ...I don't think it would ever work for me because he can't give me everything I desire and I can't give him everything he desires either- and I'm so glad he understands that and doesn't take it personal!!

NOW if only i could friggen find someone LOL!! He's had more luck than me- how did the tables turn so quickly?? LOL

I hope the rest of you are able to find a happy median with your spouses so that everyone is happy and true to themselves!

I like sharing pictures too! http://i219.photobucket.com/albums/c...y/100_2870.jpg

Isn't it such a refreshing feeling when everyone is open not only to their spouse but to themselves as well. I have DH who is BI-leaning and knowing that he understands how I feel makes expressing it easier.

And it totally sucks that if he wanted to be with other men he could do so anytime yet I can not find another woman to be with.

Love your picture. You and your DD are so beautiful.
post #47 of 111
I just found this thread and I wanted to say hi! It's fanastic finding a group of women like me!!! Makes me not feel like the oddball.

I'd like to say I total feel for those of you who can seem to find anyone. I live in a tiny village so I know the feeling. DH feels for me too and points out women on the internet for me...

Nice to meet you all!
post #48 of 111
Thank you for the compliments Brianna has my DH eyes but my little one has mine but even bluer!

http://i219.photobucket.com/albums/c...AlyssaAnne.jpg
http://i219.photobucket.com/albums/c...nnaJasmine.jpg
post #49 of 111
ekkagrrl
post #50 of 111
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Originally Posted by EkkaGrrl View Post
I just found this thread and I wanted to say hi! It's fanastic finding a group of women like me!!! Makes me not feel like the oddball.

I'd like to say I total feel for those of you who can seem to find anyone. I live in a tiny village so I know the feeling. DH feels for me too and points out women on the internet for me...

Nice to meet you all!

WELCOME!
post #51 of 111
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Originally Posted by majikfaerie View Post
oooh ooh! [waves hand hermione granger style]
pick me! pick me
No way. I'm way closer than majik... Pick me!!:
post #52 of 111
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Originally Posted by Pynki View Post
No way. I'm way closer than majik... Pick me!!:
I challenge thee to a duel for the heart of the fair maiden! :

post #53 of 111
Welcome ekkagrrl!

Ya'll are too funny! Dueling...
post #54 of 111
Thanks for the welcome! I feel so... umm.. welcome!
post #55 of 111
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Originally Posted by majikfaerie View Post
I challenge thee to a duel for the heart of the fair maiden! :

It is sooo on!
:

I should tell you though...
:

I have an unfair advantage on you...
:

Having met said maiden fair before.
:
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post #56 of 111
Nice to find this thread.

African Tulip, You can watch the first episode here, if you like...

http://www.sho.com/site/lword/ourchart.do

xo
post #57 of 111
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Originally Posted by Pynki View Post
It is sooo on!
:

I should tell you though...

I have an unfair advantage on you...

Having met said maiden fair before.
Well, since you're going in against the magnificent majikfaerie, I suppose you can use all the help you can get
post #58 of 111
Ahhh.. I see the schmaltz is strong with this one!
post #59 of 111
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Originally Posted by Pynki View Post
Ahhh.. I see the schmaltz is strong with this one!
yes. my schmaltz is bigger than yours.
And I have merchandising.
post #60 of 111
BLAST IT ALL! I always lose on the merchandizing!
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