i feel really bad for britney spears

[carlylovesthesims2]

move this if in the wrong spot but seriously britney is mentally ill and she dearly loves her children or she wouldnt of done what she did today people will call her a spoilt brat etc but she is seriously ill drs who are treating her in hospital while she is under suicide watch are saying that she may have bipolar etc i feel the media need to back away and let her get better who agrees?

[artgoddess]

Yeah, I used to just roll my eyes and think, "What a whack-job" but about a year ago or more, I really started feeling so badly for her. She needs help

[carlylovesthesims2]

Originally Posted by artgoddess

Yeah, I used to just roll my eyes and think, "What a whack-job" but about a year ago or more, I really started feeling so badly for her. She needs help

yes she does need help and she has for awhile i hope now drs take her condition seriously and get her on the right treatment etc she reminds me of a lost little girl

[baltic_ballet]

what I don't get is;

surely her family and friends could tell she was getting deeper and deeper into trouble – I don’t get how they could had have stood by and watched her crash and burn – my mother would have forced me to get help.

Did she have nobody adult enough to tell her "look Brit you really need to get help"? and then take her to get the help she needed?

shes been headed for a meltdown for months and months now - their must have been signs...

I feel sad that she dosn't seem to have and family support or a person she could trust to advisor her.

[carlylovesthesims2]

Originally Posted by baltic_ballet

what I don't get is;

surely her family and friends could tell she was getting deeper and deeper into trouble – I don’t get how they could had have stood by and watched her crash and burn – my mother would have forced me to get help.

Did she have nobody adult enough to tell her "look Brit you really need to get help"? and then take her to get the help she needed?

Their must have been signs...

I feel sad that she dosn't seem to have and family support

well she is being held now for 72 hours under sucide watch and as bad as that is hopefully she will get the help she has so badly needed people say britney loves the attention but i dont think she does shes no angel but she is a human being that is oviously ill and needs help for herself to get better IMO


im only 28 and im not a parent but i suspect brit has post partum depression or something she had those boys very close together. also kevin isnt that relible from what i have heard

[Sage_SS]

I do not feel sorry for her.

Yes, she does need help.

[carlylovesthesims2]

Originally Posted by Sage_SS

I do not feel sorry for her.

Yes, she does need help.

i know she isnt perfect but everyone needs a break even celebs

[Sage_SS]

Originally Posted by carlylovesthesims2

i know she isnt perfect but everyone needs a break even celebs

I agree.

[Sage_SS]

You know what I honestly think would be unbelievably helpful for most celebs with issues, especially those with paparazzi issues.

To go and live with someone else, maybe a NICE stranger, in a small town. Take a break, unwind, become a PERSON again instead of an ICON.

I've often thought about writing some of my fave artists a letter and inviting them to stay with me. There would be rules of course, like no assistants, PR people or the like.
Meh... I think people heal us all the time. They show us how to just "be" again.

[carlylovesthesims2]

i agree sage i think britneys main issues are she grew up way too fast shes what 26? but has been in the spotlight since she was about 12 she has never been her own person she has always been britney spears controlled by the media and other people and has not been able to be herself .


Shes famous the world over and has no privacy etc the media follow her everywhere she goes and the media does not help by plastering this all over the world on how she held her little boy hostage for 3 hours she loves those little boys i have no doubt about that at all but she does need to get away and be put somewhere where she can get better your place sounds perfect for her sage

[baltic_ballet]

Originally Posted by Sage_SS

You know what I honestly think would be unbelievably helpful for most celebs with issues, especially those with paparazzi issues.

To go and live with someone else, maybe a NICE stranger, in a small town. Take a break, unwind, become a PERSON again instead of an ICON.

I've often thought about writing some of my fave artists a letter and inviting them to stay with me. There would be rules of course, like no assistants, PR people or the like.
Meh... I think people heal us all the time. They show us how to just "be" again.

A reality check would be good for a lot of celebs (kinda like The Simple Life with Paris and Nicole but with a much longer time period and no cameras or paps) but she definitely needs counselling as well.

I feel sad for her boys been taken away from their mom and not understanding why

[maymorales]

when children are involved in a messy situation, it's heartbreaking.
and britney is almost like a child herself.
didn't rosie o'donnell say she'd take britney in?

[carlylovesthesims2]

Originally Posted by motheringtao

when children are involved in a messy situation, it's heartbreaking.
and britney is almost like a child herself.
didn't rosie o'donnell say she'd take britney in?

from what i hear britney and jaymies mother is not a good mother no wonder the spears girls are like they are rosie would be good wiith britney i think

[maymorales]

Originally Posted by carlylovesthesims2

from what i hear britney and jaymies mother is not a good mother no wonder the spears girls are like they are rosie would be good wiith britney i think

i agree.
wait, her sister is preggie? how old is she?
i'm a little late on celeb news, obviously.

[carlylovesthesims2]

Originally Posted by motheringtao

i agree.
wait, her sister is preggie? how old is she?
i'm a little late on celeb news, obviously.

jaymie spears is pregnant yes and shes 16

[baltic_ballet]

On the People website they said Jayden was taken to hospital - dose anyone know why? was he hurt?

[carlylovesthesims2]

Originally Posted by baltic_ballet

On the People website they said Jayden was taken to hospital - dose anyone know why? was he hurt?

britney held jayden hostage for 3 hours i think they were just checking him over to make sure in her state she didnt hurt him etc

[nicole moore]

She must feel helpless

I have never been a fan, but I often wonder if she has ever had the chance even to figure out who she really is. Is she feeling lost because her life has been dictated by the music industry? Then there's the media who can spin any story into one that will headline and make them money. I'm actually suspicious that her ex is helping to demonize her and have her children taken away so that she has to continue to pay him LOTS of money for support.
She must feel that she has no control over her life. I feel so much compassion for her because I know that it would push me over the edge too.

[marybethorama]

I do feel bad for her

but from all gossip I've read : I get the impression that she's been neglecting the kids for a while or maybe I'm wrong and she just can't cope.

I mean if she stayed home and played with the kids, the papparazzi would have a lot less to photograph. Or maybe I'm just being unrealistic.

I just have this fantasy of inviting all my friends over, paying someone to prepare healthy food, and just chilling. Which is actually what I do but I figure if I had extra money we could have a little more fun YKWIM. Like instead of feeding the kids pasta we could order lots of goodies. Heck, I'd order a large fruit tray every day.

But maybe if you're Britney, you don't have friends.

[kblackstone444]

In short- I think she needs some serious mental evaluations and probably to be committed for a while. I think the the media needs to lay off before she ends up dead (very likely she'll end up killing herself without help, but also very likely the media will play a big part in it. I also think that there's no way she should be allowed anywhere near her children (especially without intense supervision) until whatever her problems are, are fixed, and I'm sure alot of people here will say that not seeing their Mother will hurt the babies. You're absolutely right. But at this point, seeing their Mother hurts them also, maybe more. For those babies' sakes (and hers as well), she needs to get help NOW and lots of it, if she's ever gonna work through her problems and become any kind of Mother to her babies.