Well, it has happened. Two of my best friends are now in serious relationships. One friend is the kind of friend that was always available to hang out at any hour, long phone conversations, etc. I feel kinda left behind
I know that is silly, and I really am happy for both of them (actually there is a third too, but we are not as close as we used to be) I am especially happy for my closest friend, he has needed a good partner and I can already see the positive changes in him as a result of being in a relationship.
I (otoh) am NOT dating anyone and I have started being active on match again and vow now to give guys who are not my typical type a try, and not to be so close minded.
The last date I had was with a guy who turned out to be very hott, and he had a nice accent
He was confident and alot of fun, well....he should've been on Craigslist's 'casual encounters' because it seems that is all he wanted
He tried, I said 'no'...he backed off, then tried again, just this time tried harder, became more "assertive" I said a strong NO, then he backed off. He then tried again, and so on until I could finally get away. I am an assertive woman, just in some of these situations, I feel like such a weanie. I will have NO PROBLEM now telling him what I think about his disrespecting me, but it will be over the phone. What. is. wrong. with. me????!!!!
btw, can you believe that he even tried that on a first date??? a BLIND date at that!! Honestly, it had me feeling down, that, and the fact that my friends are moving on.
I know this year is going to get better, it HAS to