I don't do anything to bf poo dipes before tossing them in the washer. I toss them in, put a small amt of detergent, run them through a hot/cold cycle on the large load setting, then reset it for another hot/cold cycle without detergent. We have a h/e front loader, so it doesn't use much water.
I just this week put ds2 back in cloth--we've used disp since Thanksgiving, just to make things easier for me. For nasty toddler poops, I shake out what I can in the toilet, then throw the dipe (yes, just one dipe) into the wsher on a cold cycle, smallest load setting. tiny dab detergent. Run it through and let the machine do the dirty work for me!

The small setting uses about the same amt of water as flushing the toilet twice, so it all works out about the same, imo....except I don't have to mess with the messy diapers, LOL!

Since I'm dealing with toddler diapers now as well as newborn, I occasionally run a small washer cycle with bleach (no laundry) to clean/deodorize the drum. The only other "special" thing I do is check the drum for any...er..."indigestibles" as necessary!

I just take a wipe and clean out any fruit skins that might have managed to make it through the whole process, LOL!
Seriously though....anyone who takes such pride in nasal-mining really ought not to be bothered by the idea of bf poo in the washer!


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