Mama to 1 partially selectively vaxed DS.
He is 16 months old and hasn't had his 12 month vax yet, because he's been sick nearly nonstop since then and because I don't really want to do them anymore.
He has reactive airway disease and food/environmental allergies. I'll always wonder if the vax is a contributing factor.
But then I also live in terror that he'll get pertussis or another more common vax-able disease, because his immune system is so weak. Especially since he is mostly FF.
DH is fine with going in either direction and feels similarly conflicted. I really need to sit down and do the research and decide.