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I'm going to nurse this baby!!!  

post #1 of 13
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Some of you may know our story. DD suffered brain damage during the delivery and is exclusively tube-fed. At birth she had no suck reflex and finally started sucking at about 3 weeks. She is going to have a video swallow study done sometime in the near future to see if she can try a bottle soon. We will have to do a bottle first since she doesn't have any clue to open her mouth for food and I don't think I can work a nipple past her clamped gums.

I have a good feeling that she'll be able to eat by mouth sometime during this first year. She's come a long way and has continued to improve. And I used to think I'd just be happy if she took a bottle. Now I think I'm never truly going to get over our lost nursing relationship, which is why I've decided I am going nurse this child or die trying. There's no real reason for this post, other than to announce it out loud and make it official. Up until now, I've just said, "if it happens, it happens" and I realized that I have to be more determined than that to make this work. If there's ANY chance she can nurse, I'm going to do it no matter what it takes!

So, wish us luck.
post #2 of 13
Good for you! Go for it. It will definitely take a determined mama like you to do this, but it always helps to make your intentions known (not least of all to yourself), and then have people cheerlead you on. So I wish you luck, and I am amazed every day at what we, as mommys, will go through to nurse our babes. It renews my faith in humankind. Mostly.
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Good luck! We'll be rooting for you

-Angela
post #4 of 13
Wow. Congrats mama. Go for it - we're rooting for you!
post #5 of 13
All the best to you and your little girl, mama! I'll be there in your corner, cheering you on! It's a very worthy goal, and your daughter is lucky to have a mama willing to do so much for her!
post #6 of 13
I wish the best of luck to you! BTW, you are awesome for pumping your milk and tube feeding it to your baby! Pumping is a lot of work. You rock!
post #7 of 13
You go mama!
post #8 of 13
Go mama! You rock!!
post #9 of 13
I admire your resolve!

May I suggest possibly finger feeding instead of bottle feeding? Perhaps you could slowly work on getting her to nurse. Older babies can learn how to nurse (although I'm not certain what extent her brain damage may affect that).

Either way, she is lucky to have you.
post #10 of 13
Go mom, Go mom: Go mom. We are definitely rooting for you... and sending pro-vibes your way.
post #11 of 13
I am so happy to be reading this thread! I was in your ddc and have been rooting for you and your "little" princess. She is so lucky to have such a strong and loving mama. We will be cheering you on every step of the way!
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Originally Posted by boheime View Post
I admire your resolve!

May I suggest possibly finger feeding instead of bottle feeding? Perhaps you could slowly work on getting her to nurse. Older babies can learn how to nurse (although I'm not certain what extent her brain damage may affect that).

Either way, she is lucky to have you.
Yes, I'm keeping that in mind and will ask if that's a possibility. My midwife just mentioned that to me last night. It hadn't even occurred to me before that!
post #13 of 13
Good for you!!
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