So at my appt. today, my OB tells me I'm GBS +. Gives me the whole talk about "IV antibiotics in labor,...blah, blah, blah."
Then she goes on to say that we need to discuss the possibility of me not giving birth at the hospital I chose to, because of the "possibility" that the baby will need "extra care and monitoring".
The hospital I have chosen is new (opened in 07), and very calm, and has pediatric specialists on staff and present at all times. It's small, and lacks the "baby factory" feel of the alternative hospital (hundreds of births per month vs. tens)...which I DO NOT want to deliver at (my sister was told last spring that the baby couldn't room in over night because she could choke and die during the night). What really gets me, is that I feel like she's setting the stage for forced "observation" time in the nursery regardless of where I deliver and throwing all my choices about the birth and care of the baby out the window.
I know that I'm probably being overly sensitive because I am so close and my hormones are all wonky, but it just seems so unfair, because both of my previous births were highly interventional, because I didn't really research anything, and this time around I have been so meticulous about making every single decision based on facts and not just what my OB tells me, and I just feel like it doesn't even matter.
Anyway, I guess I just needed to unload to a group of women who would understand my frustration, opposed to my friends and family who don't understand why I wouldn't just do "whatever my doctor says" because they're "the experts."
Then she goes on to say that we need to discuss the possibility of me not giving birth at the hospital I chose to, because of the "possibility" that the baby will need "extra care and monitoring".
The hospital I have chosen is new (opened in 07), and very calm, and has pediatric specialists on staff and present at all times. It's small, and lacks the "baby factory" feel of the alternative hospital (hundreds of births per month vs. tens)...which I DO NOT want to deliver at (my sister was told last spring that the baby couldn't room in over night because she could choke and die during the night). What really gets me, is that I feel like she's setting the stage for forced "observation" time in the nursery regardless of where I deliver and throwing all my choices about the birth and care of the baby out the window.
I know that I'm probably being overly sensitive because I am so close and my hormones are all wonky, but it just seems so unfair, because both of my previous births were highly interventional, because I didn't really research anything, and this time around I have been so meticulous about making every single decision based on facts and not just what my OB tells me, and I just feel like it doesn't even matter.
Anyway, I guess I just needed to unload to a group of women who would understand my frustration, opposed to my friends and family who don't understand why I wouldn't just do "whatever my doctor says" because they're "the experts."







I totally understand where you are coming from. I was gbs + with ds1 and - with ds2. I had my test last week and did tons of remedies to hopefully test - again...we will find out Friday!




