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At my last appointment my midwife and I talked about what will happen if I go past 42 weeks. She only delivers up to that point.
A little background information: I'm not sure on my dates. I could only remember the week that my period started, not the day. My cycles had been very irregular due to very high stress and had just begun to resume a semi-normal cycle. I didn't get a positive pregnancy test until about six days after my period "should" have shown up if it was operating on a normal schedule. I told my midwife all of this and also reminded her repeatedly throughout my pregnancy.
She said that because of that we can likely slide a few more days before having to go to the hospital to be induced. The thought of having to have a hospital birth affected me badly so I wasn't paying attention to what she said next. She told me that we'd likely start it off with Cytotec if my cervix needed it (she mentioned some exact circumstances, I don't remember if she said not dilated and effaced or just one of those) and then we'd move on to Pitocin.
It didn't hit me until later... Cytotec?!? I've heard/read so many bad things about inducing with Cytotec, especially if you have already had several births (as I have). I never thought that I'd have to deal with this and I'm at a loss. I know that she can't force me to do anything but I need to know my options.
Basically I'm looking for support. What are my options other than Cytotec? Can the hospital refuse to induce me if I refuse the drug (which I'm not so sure would be a bad thing)? And has anyone had to deal with their caregiver suddenly dropping this bomb on them?
At my last appointment my midwife and I talked about what will happen if I go past 42 weeks. She only delivers up to that point.
A little background information: I'm not sure on my dates. I could only remember the week that my period started, not the day. My cycles had been very irregular due to very high stress and had just begun to resume a semi-normal cycle. I didn't get a positive pregnancy test until about six days after my period "should" have shown up if it was operating on a normal schedule. I told my midwife all of this and also reminded her repeatedly throughout my pregnancy.
She said that because of that we can likely slide a few more days before having to go to the hospital to be induced. The thought of having to have a hospital birth affected me badly so I wasn't paying attention to what she said next. She told me that we'd likely start it off with Cytotec if my cervix needed it (she mentioned some exact circumstances, I don't remember if she said not dilated and effaced or just one of those) and then we'd move on to Pitocin.
It didn't hit me until later... Cytotec?!? I've heard/read so many bad things about inducing with Cytotec, especially if you have already had several births (as I have). I never thought that I'd have to deal with this and I'm at a loss. I know that she can't force me to do anything but I need to know my options.
Basically I'm looking for support. What are my options other than Cytotec? Can the hospital refuse to induce me if I refuse the drug (which I'm not so sure would be a bad thing)? And has anyone had to deal with their caregiver suddenly dropping this bomb on them?













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