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Issue with an 11 month old breastfeeder  

post #1 of 5
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Hi there! I'm new to this forum, and I'm looking for some advice. I have two questions:
First, I am a semi-retired doula, and I've worked with moms on breastfeeding issues numerous times. This one stumps me, though! My own daughter completely stopped accepting a bottle a month ago. We had it easy! She easily interchanged between bottle, sippy, and breast (we breastfed the whole day, but gave a bottle at night, and sippy for small amounts of chamomile and water). For a month now, she completely refuses the bottle and only occasionally will take the sippy for water or breastmilk. Not only does she refuse it, she spits it out while making the "blowing raspberry" sound! It's so cute but very frustrating. Anybody else with this problem?
My second question is: recently I've been looking into wanting to donate my eggs. Had anyone gone through the cycle of "hormone therapy" while breastfeeding? I am currently on Mirena and haven't had a single problem with her not latching or refusing the breast. I'm worried that if I go ahead with it, however, she'll refuse the breast. I want to continue breastfeeding for at least 6 more months (which my family thinks is insane, so I have NO support on that issue). Any ideas... recommendations... thoughts??
post #2 of 5
Why does she need to take the bottle? Why not let her nurse at night?

As for a cup for water- have you tried an open cup?

-Angela
post #3 of 5
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Reply for my 11 month old...

I do breastfeed her at night. We only gave her one bottle a day (before bed) so that I could add her acidophilus/herbs/whatever. She seems to take more this way, and sleep better at night. Now she's back to getting up two or three times to eat, and with a 23 month old we just switched to a toddler bed, it's very difficult! She also seems very restless and won't sleep more then four hours at a time (she used to sleep from 8pm to 7am straight!). I just thought taking a bottle at night would give me a break to go out with my hubby once a month (we haven't been out in almost two years). We've tried an open cup, and she tries to drown herself! lol She can't quite get the hang of it, but if I use a sippy like the Born Free (bispenol A free with a rubbery mouthpiece), she seems to at least drink a couple ounces with this. Any other ideas...? My son has a dairy allergy so we give him rice and almond milk. She LOVES these (tries to steal his cup) and will easily drink a cupful if we let her (which we don't). I even had to start some fenugreek tea to keep up with her demands (I can't take the capsules, they upset my stomach too much). Even for my hubby, she won't take a sippy at all. I guess I'm a little lost because I feel like we won't be able to celebrate our wedding anniversary until she's at least 4! And with an MS diagnosis in the wings, I can't afford to keep getting up at night.
post #4 of 5
Your DD might take a bottle from a caregiver, but not you. Babies are smart that way.

As far as going through the IVF hormone prep for donating eggs, I would wait. Those powerful hormones can mess with your supply, so I would wait until she is age 2 or over.
post #5 of 5
Around a year is a common time for a disruption in sleep. I would offer nursing VERY often during the day (like once an hour while she's awake) to try to increase your supply and tank her up.

Is she sleeping with you? If not, I'd try that to get everyone some more sleep.

good luck!

-Angela
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