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post #81 of 109
1/27/08 at 10:00pm
I am so very sorry.

Have you though of writing down things, even on index cards, as they go past your mind? You will never forget, but it is a real and actual concern which might make the grief sharper. If you take some time to write about her, and your memories, could that help?
post #82 of 109
1/27/08 at 10:11pm
I'm so very sorry for your loss...
post #83 of 109
1/27/08 at 11:45pm


I am so sorry for your loss.
post #84 of 109
1/27/08 at 11:51pm
Your memories of her are so touching. I am glad you found a safe place to share them and people who really care about your hurt and loss.
post #85 of 109
1/27/08 at 11:53pm
post #86 of 109
1/28/08 at 12:32am
I am so terribly sorry for your loss.
post #87 of 109
1/28/08 at 12:42am
Oh, DB. I understand a bit more now when you said this morning that you couldn't sleep, and needed something to keep your mind occupied.

Because of you, and sharing your thoughts and memories of Marrissa here, she has become a part of my circle. Someone I think of, even though I never met her. Isn't that a powerful thing? The memories you shared of her are so special, and the things that made her a unique individual. You won't forget her. Those memories are your treasure from her.

Wishing you peace and solace today.
post #88 of 109
1/28/08 at 1:01am
I am so sorry. I can only imagine what you feel and it is unthinkable.

My sister lost her son after he was born prematurely and lived for one week. She's plagued by a lot of should have beens as well. I'm seeing how she's going through that thinking too. My sister read somewhere, "He is everywhere he will never be." It gives her some comfort to think that, and is a reminder of her unbelievable loss.

I am so sorry for your loss.
post #89 of 109
1/28/08 at 1:20am
I am very sorry for you loss, i had a friend who commit suicide and i understand a little bit. I could never imagine lossing a child. I am very sorry and i cried while reading your post.
Maybe make a picture collage of her that you can look at and remember her.
post #90 of 109
1/28/08 at 11:27am
So sorry for your loss, mama. Sending you healing.
post #91 of 109
1/28/08 at 11:34am
i can't imagine...i'm so sorry--i'm crying here reading your memories of her--they are beautiful. thank you for sharing
post #92 of 109
1/28/08 at 11:59am
So sorry for your loss. She sounds like a special girl.
post #93 of 109
1/28/08 at 12:02pm
i am so sorry for the loss of your daughter




post #94 of 109
1/28/08 at 12:22pm
I'm so sorry, mama. No mother should ever have to feel the way you're feeling.
post #95 of 109
1/28/08 at 1:05pm
Thread Starter 
I made it through the day. Went to bed early as I was exhausted.

Thank you for all your kind words and support. I kept checking the thread throughout the day and it helped so much.

You all helped make a difficult day a bit easier to bare.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you.
post #96 of 109
1/28/08 at 1:29pm
post #97 of 109
1/29/08 at 5:01pm
Many hugs to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your beautiful memories.

Jen
post #98 of 109
1/29/08 at 5:19pm


You're such a kind and loving person. I'm sorry you have so much pain in your life, and that you had to go through such a loss.
post #99 of 109
1/29/08 at 6:07pm
DFB, I hear you.
post #100 of 109
1/29/08 at 6:15pm
Your memories of her are so beautiful! I'm sure she was an amazing person. I'm holding back tears at work right now. Thanks for sharing with us! :
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