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post #61 of 88
9/1/03 at 1:43pm
I am so very sorry for your loss, you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

((HUGS))

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post #62 of 88
9/1/03 at 1:53pm
I haven't stopped weeping since I read your post. My heart is broken for you. I don't know what to say, except that in this tremendous depth of grief and despair, I hope that you will find some peace.
post #63 of 88
9/1/03 at 4:54pm
I am so incredibly sorry. I am in Kansas City, I am pming you my contact info.
post #64 of 88
9/1/03 at 6:29pm
I am so sorry for your loss mama, I can not even imagine the pain you must be in. Please know we are with you in spirit, and thinking of you. Sending light and love and strength.

Debi
post #65 of 88
9/1/03 at 7:24pm
I am so sorry!! My heart goes out to you.
post #66 of 88
9/1/03 at 9:30pm
Oh, i am so sorry.
post #67 of 88
9/1/03 at 10:10pm
I'm terribly sorry. The worst thing that can happen...

Kristine
post #68 of 88
9/2/03 at 9:28pm
Kim, sweetie, I just found your thread. I have been thinking a lot about you since I got your ICAN post. God bless you sweetie. There is nothing I can say to take away your pain but know that lotsa love is being sent your way.
post #69 of 88
9/2/03 at 11:20pm
I know how I felt when my sister died 43 years ago.

s

Hope your little is close to G-d and saves a place for you.
post #70 of 88
9/3/03 at 2:09am
I read your announcement way back on the first page and have been gutted ever since. I can see the soft cheeks of your baby girl and the satisfaction in her face when she stopped nursing for the last time.

I mourn for your loss. Having lost my family to death I do know the deep and bottomless abyss of that despair. My mother died when I was 6. I know how you must want to die for missing your daughter so.

Everyone who said she is still alive in another plain is right, it is true.

I was touched by the poem, someone sent you. Regardless of your religion - the Buddhists have something to say about our immortality, and I know it's right. And your daughter, like all of us, is immortal:
This is what they say to their loved ones as they pass to the next realm, with God, with eternity - with whatever you believe is on the other side:

"O Nobly born, when Thy body and mind were separating, thou must have experienced a glimpse of the Pure Truth
subtle, sparkling, bright, dazzling , glorious, and radiantly awesome, in appearance like a mirage moving across a landscape in spring time in one continuous stream of vibrations.

Be not daunted thereby, nor terrified nor awed. That is the radiance of thine own true nature. Recognize it."

Your daughter was caught up in that spring time.Our little babies come from that magic springtime and don'teven know they have left it by the age of 8 months. Oh she loves you for eternity. When you pass into your springtime you will meet her and embrace and it will be like you were never parted.

I mourn for your family's grief. My prayers are with you during this lonely time. You suffer, and she awaits the time of joy when you embrace again. She looks at you with kindness and adoration, knowing that the time of your reuinion is a second and a glance to her, and such an hard eternity for you. God be with you.
post #71 of 88
9/3/03 at 2:46am
My heart is breaking for you. I'm so very, very sorry.
post #72 of 88
9/3/03 at 1:31pm
I am so sorry for your loss, and you are in my thoughts.
post #73 of 88
9/3/03 at 3:29pm
Your family is in my prayers.
post #74 of 88
9/3/03 at 8:40pm
Please stay close to us Kim and take whatever you need from this warm and loving community of mamas --we are all here for you and your family, to hold you up and offer our love, support & prayers.
I am so deeply sorry to hear of your loss. You and your sweet Emma will be in my prayers.
post #75 of 88
9/3/03 at 8:58pm
I am very sorry for your loss, words do not express it.

My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Robin
post #76 of 88
9/3/03 at 11:03pm
I just wish you can find some light amongst all this darkness. The light from knowing that your daughter is forever in peace and that her short life was spent in complete happiness next to such a loving family.
Elena
post #77 of 88
9/3/03 at 11:22pm
Kim, my heart is breaking into a million peices for you and your family. I can't even fathom such a loss.

You are going to have so many questions over the comming year. You'll have an entire year of first that will all be painful. I hope you have the support you need and the resources to reach out deeper if you need to. We're always here to listen when you need us.

My friends 5 year old son Jake died last year. She's still in such a deep state of greif. I still cry with her every time we're together.

In her case, they never found out exactly why he died. It sounds like that may be the case with your daughters death. It's going to be so hard and you're going to go over and over it all in your mind trying to make sence of it all.

Please know that we're here for you to support you and listen.

Again, I'm so sorry about your loss and send you and your family my love.
post #78 of 88
9/7/03 at 3:43pm
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
post #79 of 88
9/7/03 at 3:53pm


Dear Kim, I'm so so very sorry about your loss. I can't even begin to understand what it feels like, only that my heart breaks for you.

I'll plant some fall flowers for Emma tomorrow.
Love, Simone
post #80 of 88
9/13/03 at 3:04am
Kim~
I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. You will be in my thoughts.

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