Cool, thanks for the suggestions! I have seen Birth Into Being before and it was beautiful. Not nearly as loud or dramatic sounding as my births but great. I think I saw Gentle Birth Choices and it freaked me out--there was this OB who was all over the babies suctioning, etc., cutting cords before the shoulders came out, etc. and I'm really sensitive to that sort of stuff. I'll ask dh to check out Birth Day, Birth Joy and Birth in the Squatting Position, also maybe Psalm and Zoya (haven't seen that yet)...the more I think about it, the less I want to be the one to watch any of these videos right now. I'll tell him about youtube but I'm betting he won't check it out, although I'm sure there are some great ones on there.
Thanks again for the suggestions!