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post #1 of 6
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I don't really need to have any new reasons for hsing, ds and I are commited hsing through high school. But if I ever need reminding why I homeschool, it's always useful to hang out with some of ds's friends for an hour or two.

All of ds's friends are in public school. They will sometimes do their homework over here while visiting. One friend was over here last week, his younger brother was making too much noise, so he asked to write his take home LA test at our house.

Ok, don't even get me started on "take home" tests (what's the point in testing if you're going to assign it as homework? Does that mean that there is no point in testing? Or you think kids have too much family time and you need to cut into it that much more?) But listening to this kid talk about his assignment, and the class in general, had me shaking my head.

Now, this is the same program I pulled ds from 1.5 years ago, because of the general useless, make work environment (he got colouring homework from his cooking teacher, something she apparently gives out every January when she can't think of anything better to do. This was in grade 7!!!) So I'm biased to begin with, it's also the program that took my read 10 novels a month kid and turned him into a non-reader in less than 2 months. But I don't think I'm biased in thinking this class is a useless waste of time:

Ds's friend told me that they had yet to study any piece of literature, no poetry, no novels, no short stories. They had spent the first 5 months of school studying transactional essays. Not even writing, pre-writing. Ds's friend was supposed to spend 4 days at home pre-writing his essay (on how to apply for a job), and he will be graded on his brainstorming and thought bubbles and organizational trees, before he'll be allowed to actually start writing.

Am I the only person who thinks it's stupid, pointless and frightening to teach (and grade on) an approved thought process? And I suffered through some really bad LA teachers in high school, and I know that many of them just suck all the joy and interest out of literature, but sending a kid through a full year of LA without reading any literature? That's like teaching math with calculators and work books and nothing else. The reason we study literature is to understand and grow from the thoughts and ideas of our predecessors, and interact with 2 millenia of thinkers, and to find inspiration for debate, dissent and creativity. Or am I asking too much for my child's education?
post #2 of 6
I'm glad that not ALL traditional schools are quite that mind-numbing!
post #3 of 6
You are absolutely right and no, you are not asking too much for your child's education. IMO, ps asks too little, but they make it so complicated it seems like it has substance to parents who are simply not paying attention or perhaps have no other choice but to send their kids to ps. Either way, it isn't good.

Sometimes I wonder if I'm doing the right thing by hs'ing, then someone brings something like this up or I see it firsthand... Yeah, we're so doing the right thing and we are just fine.
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Originally Posted by Ruthla View Post
I'm glad that not ALL traditional schools are quite that mind-numbing!
I know there are some good teachers out there, and some good schools, when you can find the right fit.

But in Canada we have been been moving more and more into standardized, national curriculums (there is even a very serious attempt going on right now to create a national pre-school curriculum that all daycare centers and in-home daycares would have to follow.) More and more history is being replaced by "the Canadian Experience", English class by personal journaling (at best.)

What bothers me about what I see happening around here is that more and more kids are being taught what to think, rather than how.
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What no-one likes to mention about public school is that in 12 years a kid is going to get a wide variety of curriculum and teachers, with a corrensponding variety of levels of quality. There's nothing 'stadardized' about it. And let's face it, most of us who went through ps can only remember at most 3 or 4 outstanding, inspiring, dedicated, go above and beyond teachers. And 3 or 4 really poor ones, too. The rest might have been just fine. Compare that to the fact that most people's parents love them best among all the people in the world; have a high personal stake in their success and happiness; and know them better than anyone else. Homeschooling families usually make a lot of sacrifices to be able to homeschool, too. The odds are better, in my mind, that the homeschooling parent is going to do a better job than the average public school.
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I'm locking this thread...this forum is not the appropriate place to discuss negative experiences with schools. Feel free to repost this in Learning at School, or post something about the joys of homeschooling here.

Dar
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