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post #1 of 30
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Any other Moms who are due in July and still breastfeeding an older child? How is it going? What are your plans (if you have any)?

My daughter has not finished weaning, although she has definitely started. She is down to just 2-4 nursing sessions per day. Most days she nurses first thing in the morning (before getting out of bed), naptime, bedtime, and occasionally once during the night/very early morning. Not only does she nurse MUCH less than she used to, but each nursing session is shorter than it used to be. I don't think she goes longer than maybe 5-10 minutes per side now.

I'm unsure what my plans are. Part of me really wants her to finish weaning during the pregnancy. Part of me is sort of looking forward to tandem nursing. Part of me really still wants her to wean herself, even if I am encouraging her in that direction I sort of want the last step to be her own. I think I'd be satisfied if she just decided she could drop these last few nursing sessions. Too bad we can't pick and choose - I certainly know moms who were hoping their youngster would keep nursing through a pregnancy.
post #2 of 30
I weaned my daughter about 2 weeks ago. She is just over 2-1/2 years old. I was nursing her through the beginning of my pregnancy but was putting more limits on it as it was extremely painful. I eventually lost most of my milk but she was still nursing about 2 times/day and a couple more at night. I had planned on letting her continue to nurse but limiting it to nap/bedtime and then tandem nurse. About 4 weeks ago we found out I was pregnant with twins and after doing some reading we thought it would be better to wean dd entirely. So, over the next 2 weeks we gently worked with her and while she did get upset a few times it went over pretty well. I am relieved to be done at this point because it was very draining for me (emotionally and physically) and I knew that I would not be able to triandem nurse. I have tandem nursed in the past with ds and dd and I did enjoy it for about 4 months before we gently encouraged ds to wean from his last bedtime nursing. He was just baout 3 at that time and I was ready.

It is a hard decision and I know the internal struggle of wanting to continue and wanting to be done at the same time .
post #3 of 30
I am still nursing my 18 month old. I successfully nightweaned her about a month ago and that has made my life a billion times easier. I was at the point that I wanted to just crawl in a hole and die it was so bad. But now that I am sleeping I don't mind nursing her during the day anymore. I have definitely limited it though. If she had her way she would nurse around the clock. We are down to 4-6 sessions a day. I don't particularly want to tandem nurse, but we will see how things go. I won't force her to wean before she is ready.
post #4 of 30
i am nursing 2 older sibs and pregnant, due in july. i did the same thing when my last baby was inside, and ended up nursing 3 for a long while. my oldest just weaned around his 5th birthday. right now dd, who is 3.5, only nurses once or twice a day and ds, who is 16 mos, nurses all day and night. dd is really a lot less nursey than her older brother who is weaned. she may wean in this pg. and then i'll only have to nurse ds and newbaby.

it is a personal choice. but i felt very good about ds1 nursing through 2 pregnancies and slowly, slowly weaning. there were times when he quit for a week at a time and i thought we were done, but then he would ask again. and times when he asked a lot and i was busy with a new baby, etc and i played a art in the process. i think we're both really happy with how it happened.

it shocks me to think dd may wean earlier, but really who am i to say when she should? every child is different. and she may hang on longer, i dont know.

ds2 is more like ds1- way attached to maymay. we shall see!
post #5 of 30
I'm still nursing my 17 month old. I weaned my three year old shortly after finding out I was pregnant because tandem nursing during the early stages of pregnancy was just too much for me She was ready (ish) but I wasn't very happy about doing it. But my younger girl is still going strong, some days she only nurses twice and some up to ten times. I don't have any milk left so it's just about comfort right now for her. I imagine she'll pick it back up when the baby is born and my milk comes in which is what her older sister did.
post #6 of 30
I'm tandem nursing my 3.5 year old DS and 18 month old DD through this pregancy. DS is down to only 1-2 times a day, but I don't think he'll be weaning during the pregnancy. If not that's fine, I'll triandem nurse for a while until someone decides they are done.
post #7 of 30
My daughter weaned at 2 1/2, but I oddly always wanted to tandem nurse. It just wasn't in the cards to have kids that close together.

Whatever you mommas decide, whether it is to continue and tandem or wean, you have given your current kids a wonderful gift by nursing so long and will give the new babe the same wonderful gift
post #8 of 30
This is what I say mentally while nursing right now...

Ow ow ow ow, wait for the let down, ow ow DARN! Come on let down. Ahhhhhhh. Let down.
post #9 of 30
I'm still nursing my 2 1/2 yo dd, too. She recently (within the last two weeks) started finally sleeping through the night, which is HEAVEN! I can stand the daytime nursing now so much better! She is down to only nursing a couple times a day, usually nap and bed time, sometimes once or twice more... I'm pretty sore, and there's hardly any milk left, and she doesn't usually nurse for more than 2 minutes, so I think she'll probably wean. If not, though, that's OK. I'll tandem if I need to for her (though I can't say I really _want_ to do it.) My ds weaned when I was about 5 months pg with dd (he was a couple months over 3). It was very peaceful and easy, really, so I'm hoping the same thing for dd. But whatever she needs is what we'll do.
post #10 of 30
I'm nursing my almost 2.5 year old. It HURTS the last week or so, though. If you can make it through pregnancy, tandem nursing is much easier than nursing through a pregnancy. I tandem nursed ds2 and ds3 for 1.5 years for ds2 weaned.
post #11 of 30
I'm still nursing DS 14 mos... I feel fine. Although, I have noticed that he has not been nursing as much at night which is helpful! I plan on tandem nursing, but I'm sure he'll wean sometime around his 2nd birthday. We nurse at most 10x a day. Although I have noticed increased sensitivity this second tri????
post #12 of 30
i'm still nursing my 23mo. i really thought she would wean when my supply dropped, but it's basically gone now, she tells me so, and it hasn't affected her nursing in the slightest. i have to say i'm not thrilled at the thought of tandem nursing, but the thought of forcing her to wean is even less appealing, so...tandem it is! i'm trying to get myself excited about it.
post #13 of 30
I'm still nursing my DS2. I was worried about supply but lately I have been getting engourged?? Also my boobs don't hurt but oh many my nips are very sensitive. It is going good except he moves so much while eating. I am going w/ the flow and seeing how things go. Some days I just want to be done and then we have a nice laid back nursing session and I think about how much I'd miss it. He seems to nurse on the fly for a few minutes at a time.
post #14 of 30
I am nursing my 2.5 year old ds. I have put restrictions on nursing since getting pg because it is very very uncomfortable for me. He only nurses once per day before nap. Sometimes I'm working and sometimes he doesn't take a nap so he hasn't nursed for a couple of days in a row at times. I do feel guilty about limiting and cutting down, because I know he doesn't like it. But for me I just really don't want to do it anymore because it hurts.
I have a lot of mixed feeling and emotions about the whole thing.
It's definitely not easy.

Lorette
post #15 of 30
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Originally Posted by madiesmommy View Post

Whatever you mommas decide, whether it is to continue and tandem or wean, you have given your current kids a wonderful gift by nursing so long and will give the new babe the same wonderful gift
Thanks, I needed to hear this right now!

Lorette
post #16 of 30
Im an EPer.. Kiddo is tube fed.. My supply has taken a majour hit and Ive switched over to colostrum so Im down to pumping 2 times a day which I will continue until the baby gets here.. Then I will breastfeed the baby and continue pumping for my other kiddo.. or pump for both if I have to. My kiddo is almost 3 and I do not plan on "weaning" him until he is able to take food by mouth and not have to rely on canned crap for his nutrition.
post #17 of 30
I am still bf-ing my almost 18mo. I don't have a goal age for extended bf-ing or weaning, so we're just playing things by ear.

Gotta run- more later.
post #18 of 30
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Originally Posted by Lorette View Post
I I do feel guilty about limiting and cutting down, because I know he doesn't like it. But for me I just really don't want to do it anymore because it hurts.
I have a lot of mixed feeling and emotions about the whole thing.
It's definitely not easy.

Lorette
I am with you on this one. DD is 2 1/2 and would nurse more if it wasn't so uncomfortable for me. We are down to 1-2x per day, usually just one at night. I have been "encouraged" by people who have no business giving an opinion that it would be better for her to wean before the new one arrives, but I am not sure that will be OK with her! My supply has really dwindled and may disappear long before numero dos arrives anyway. So, we will just see how it goes. If we tandem nurse, that is OK. If she weans before then, that is OK too. In the mean time, sometimes we do "ABC nursing"--she can nurse a for as long as it takes for me to sing the ABC song. This always makes her giggle!
post #19 of 30
Thread Starter 
Oh boy, many still nursing moms. MDC is so nice! Not only so many nursing moms, but moms nursing older kids too. And even some still tandem nursing from a previous pregnancy. It's nice to hear that I'm not alone. Well, I'm only nursing one, but she is 3.5 years old. It's nice to hear that it's not completely unreasonable to just keep nursing her and that some day she will stop even if I wait for her to stop on her own.
post #20 of 30
Have you ever seen a nursing grad student? Of course she will stop when she is ready
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