: I don't change at night.
We always do the first few nights, then I get lazy, I need my sleep too much to get both (or all 3) of us up and awake to change diapers. We use a nice thick hemp diaper, with either a prowraps cover, or a nice thick wool soaker. She gets changed into this around 11-midnight when DH comes to bed, and we get up at 6. The diaper is SOAKED by morning, an sometimes her jammies will be slightly damp, but it is worth it to me to not wake up all the way at night
I use vinegar in my rinse as a fabric softener - this works on all clothes!
I can't use prefolds on a newborn, they just never work right. That is all we used with #2 for a long time and now I love my nice stash of newborn diapers. Once they are a couple of months old, prefolds seem to work much better.