Hi Tamera- I love your kid's names and the cute emoticons you picked for each one in your sig. I have a one year old daughter (yesterday was her birthday) and a 5.5 year old son.
My husband was circumcisied without his parent's consent, the hospital just did it. He was the first man on either side of his family to be cicumcised. But what really sucked was that no one TOLD him this... i mean, I guess they figured it was better to let the little boy just be happy with his penis then to scare him and say, "after you were born the Dr. came to the nursery and took you and cut off a piece of your penis and when we saw what they had done to you we were shocked and horrified!...."
I mean- you don't want to give the kid nightmares of being abducted by penis cutters ... but why not approach us when I was pregnant and explain this?
Instead how it played out was I had to use my promiscuous history and understanding of all the european men I had casually gone to bed with to argue with my wonderful love of my life husband that this thing he was thinking of doing to our baby was really not a good idea to do to a guys sex organ. He took it personal and it was just terrible for us. If his parents had come clean earlier to him- he could have known.
Instead there he was, a fool in denial, arguing that a boy must look like dad- and he didn't even know his own dad was intact.
Our son (intact) was bout 4 years old before my husband learnd the truth surrounding his own circumcision and that was only after he decided to come forward to his prents and tell them that he did not like being circumcised and that he was restoring his foreskin. he did not confront them, it was not like a volatile blow up scene... he just wanted to tell them so they didn't promote circumcision for other people.
I hope that you can figure out a good time intheir lives to help your boys undrstand.